Seriously, STFU!
14 years ago
I am seriously getting sick and tired of hearing that he keeps publically saying and/or posting nasty things about me online, or in real life, to our mutual friends, behind my back. I have made an effort to block him off FB, took him off my lists on AF and FA, and even blocking his phone calls. Unfortunately, that doesn't stop him from being so outspoken about me.
We have already agreed to being friends after we had our dispute over my own belongings, so, I thought things between us were at least neutral. He even sent me a text message showing me the panda I bought for him when we first started dating to show me "Fuzz" is still cute, if not meaningful. However, I can't even poke fun at some things he says without him flying off the handle. In a motorcycle thread, he stated he hated "rent EPS cops" because he happened to get two expensive tickets from them. I made a joke and said "Well, it's not like you paid for them XD"
Then he posts on FB how I am such a crazy ex. What a guy.
First off, I didn't realize something as simple as that would invoke such a statement, or his profane texts to me when I asked "Crazy ex, eh? Would you like to talk to me about it?". Geez, I honestly thought it was a bit of a poke, but I guess he took it as a punch in the face, or something. I even apologized to him for that little remark.
Secondly, I could go off on a whole long tangent about everything that's happened in our relationship, during and after our breakup, and our very short lived "getting back together". But look here, I actually kept my mouth shut about everything, except for the blackberry pocket dial (I still wonder about that).
Why is it he thinks it's okay to say such hateful things about me to people I respect, if not our mutual friends? Yet the minute I say something that's... well, imo, not at all mean or insulting, he can fly off the handle and continue to be so hostile towards me?
This may sound like a very drama llama thing, but I have not said anything publically or to people I am not close with in regards to him and what happened. Yet, I have to sit here and listen to my friends reporting back to me things he says. I have told him numerous time that his petty shit has got to stop, but events have stated otherwise, and I don't just mean the FB post. I meant even the Kitchen Con at Y&D at
theorangefox or even back in December-January. But, he has the nerve to tell ME to keep my comments about him to myself. XD
I will slowly let people know about my side of the story if this shit continues, regardless if he thinks what I have to say is important. I needed to get this off my chest, and wanted you to know I am quite bothered by this.
We have already agreed to being friends after we had our dispute over my own belongings, so, I thought things between us were at least neutral. He even sent me a text message showing me the panda I bought for him when we first started dating to show me "Fuzz" is still cute, if not meaningful. However, I can't even poke fun at some things he says without him flying off the handle. In a motorcycle thread, he stated he hated "rent EPS cops" because he happened to get two expensive tickets from them. I made a joke and said "Well, it's not like you paid for them XD"
Then he posts on FB how I am such a crazy ex. What a guy.
First off, I didn't realize something as simple as that would invoke such a statement, or his profane texts to me when I asked "Crazy ex, eh? Would you like to talk to me about it?". Geez, I honestly thought it was a bit of a poke, but I guess he took it as a punch in the face, or something. I even apologized to him for that little remark.
Secondly, I could go off on a whole long tangent about everything that's happened in our relationship, during and after our breakup, and our very short lived "getting back together". But look here, I actually kept my mouth shut about everything, except for the blackberry pocket dial (I still wonder about that).
Why is it he thinks it's okay to say such hateful things about me to people I respect, if not our mutual friends? Yet the minute I say something that's... well, imo, not at all mean or insulting, he can fly off the handle and continue to be so hostile towards me?
This may sound like a very drama llama thing, but I have not said anything publically or to people I am not close with in regards to him and what happened. Yet, I have to sit here and listen to my friends reporting back to me things he says. I have told him numerous time that his petty shit has got to stop, but events have stated otherwise, and I don't just mean the FB post. I meant even the Kitchen Con at Y&D at
theorangefox or even back in December-January. But, he has the nerve to tell ME to keep my comments about him to myself. XDI will slowly let people know about my side of the story if this shit continues, regardless if he thinks what I have to say is important. I needed to get this off my chest, and wanted you to know I am quite bothered by this.
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How was I to know?? D: