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Hi some words
14 years ago
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ I have been under the weather which is annoying but i working hard to finish things
but I have some words , I notice a lot of people have been feeling or thinking they are no good or not worth anyone's love or friendship. What ever reason people are down they should not ignore or not listen to the friends that are around them who are cheering them on. I dont understand when someone is trying to help the person gets on the defensive and think that their friends are just horrible people for saying nice things. It is what friends are for and sometimes the nice does not come out when what ever that is being said has been thrown in the dirt and stomped on. it is hard to tell someone over and over they are wonderful and have them say no im not every time, like if their friends are lieing to them. I know its hard for people to see the good in themselves when they fill their thoughts with hurtful words towards themselves but at least try to think that they are not telling u bad things if they are complementing you...its like they rather have them say that they are horrible people than say they are a great person.
it is frustrating to me, how much people fight anyone who says anything good about them. I may say naw im not great but ill say thank you but Im just messing with the other person about that. Sometimes I mean it b/c its how im felling that day but I never take what my friends say to me and throw it out the window, and Im sure its hurtful to anyone who has that happens to them, like the person does not realize that they are hurting their friends by rejecting their good words of encouragement, a lot of people say oh im just being modest...but being modest does not mean you drag urself in the dirt, it just means u dont brag about urself and if other people are saying nice things to u u just say thank you ...it is a real tragedy that people lost the real meaning of being modest and made it into something worse than it is.
hope this is understandable
but I have some words , I notice a lot of people have been feeling or thinking they are no good or not worth anyone's love or friendship. What ever reason people are down they should not ignore or not listen to the friends that are around them who are cheering them on. I dont understand when someone is trying to help the person gets on the defensive and think that their friends are just horrible people for saying nice things. It is what friends are for and sometimes the nice does not come out when what ever that is being said has been thrown in the dirt and stomped on. it is hard to tell someone over and over they are wonderful and have them say no im not every time, like if their friends are lieing to them. I know its hard for people to see the good in themselves when they fill their thoughts with hurtful words towards themselves but at least try to think that they are not telling u bad things if they are complementing you...its like they rather have them say that they are horrible people than say they are a great person.
it is frustrating to me, how much people fight anyone who says anything good about them. I may say naw im not great but ill say thank you but Im just messing with the other person about that. Sometimes I mean it b/c its how im felling that day but I never take what my friends say to me and throw it out the window, and Im sure its hurtful to anyone who has that happens to them, like the person does not realize that they are hurting their friends by rejecting their good words of encouragement, a lot of people say oh im just being modest...but being modest does not mean you drag urself in the dirt, it just means u dont brag about urself and if other people are saying nice things to u u just say thank you ...it is a real tragedy that people lost the real meaning of being modest and made it into something worse than it is.
hope this is understandable
You can say as many complements an nice things you want but if its contrary to what they go through...what they experience irl...no amount of pretty words will ever make them feel otherwise.
It can be like someone giving me a penny.....not much an almost meaning less....cant buy anything with a penny and it can easily be forgotten
but I guess the thought is enough for some....an that someone is thinking about you.....but still....100 more an then I can buy something lol
Anyway~ I hope you feel better soon hun *hugs*
but I get you but, u know u have friends who are online and thats the only way you can talk to them, so its hard to get a physical thing there. but some people do think their online life is more than in person life but I would hope that they can see that, the friends online know them better than those people in their world so they can say those things and have it mean something,
but it is hard on these friends too b/c they cant hug them or show it other than words, ahh
but when I said physical I meant in a personal sort of way
like drawing a little doodle for them...yea I know what would be nuts considering the net is filled with sad people lol XD
but it does show that you took the time to show them you cared cause you put effort into.
anyways id doesnt have to be a drawing, it can be anything that shows you do care far more then just words ^ ^
also I wana catch it so we can be sick together > u<
Yeah, hundreds of words might say how much people like you, and care, and that you are wonderful and stuff.. but in the end you end up still feeling alone... when you really would like someone to "do" something... anything that might backup those words a bit.. you only end up seeing empty words.. Not a single action towards yourself if you don't ask or push someone to do something.. Like, no matter how you feel or what you want.. in the end you're just there.. alone again...
Sorry.. i guess i'm just being emo again... as usual.. so don't mind me..
Take care there both of you ^^
its even worse when the person youre trying to cheer up is specially close to you...
*is going trought that right now