I'm sick of being used, abused, and lied about (VENT)
14 years ago
Augh, watch out you guys. Vent.
Okay, so I have a friend named Leslie, and she an I started to really hit it off near the end of Senior year. Anyways, her parents are kinda crazy, and shit went down in her house. I was always there for her to pick her up and get her out of her house. I was always there to pick her up from work when her mom refused to do it. I went OUT OF MY WAY to help this girl. I felt so bad for her. I'd hear her mom screaming at her over the phone when she would be at my house. Now Leslie does NOT have her license, or her own car because she used to have really bad seizures.
So finally, she gets kicked out around 1 am on a Friday night. A Night when I am not home, and I am out with my boyfriend about 40 minutes away from her. We were visiting his little brother and his step mother, having a good time. Again, I do not have my car. She calls me, saying how she has been kicked out. I tell her I can't do anything since we are so far away, I don't have my car, and James has been drinking so we were going to stay the night at his brother's house. I told her to call her boyfriend, get him to pick her up and stay there. She could NOT stay about my house, since it is already crammed. She wouldn't have her own room, let alone her own bed. But I figured her mom was just being a little crazy and would take her back in the morning. She ended up not doing that, only giving Leslie a few things and expects her to stay somewhere. Lucky for her, my friend Megan has an extra room at her house and they took her in. And we listened to all the terrible stories she told us of living in that house, how horrible her mother and father were. And we believed every little word that poured out of her mouth. I even found her a better job where she was surrounded by dogs and could be happy. I drove her to work and so did Megan AND Megan's boyfriend. We went out of her way to help her. I even invited her to go to Florida with megan and my family. Get this.
She sat in the back of the van with my sister and her friend, Megan and I in the middle. Each stop we made, we asked 'Hey Les, wanna sit in the middle?' "No no, I like the back!" Okay! On the way HOME from Florida, she got really car sick, so we let her sit in the middle the whole time. My parents got her medicine and Megan and I would switch back and forth from the front and the middle, since ti was crammed back there.
Well, let me tell you all the LIES she has been spewing about ME.
I never TRIED to come pick her up from her house when she got kicked out. I was only FIVE MINUTES AWAY WITH JAMES Doing 'GOD KNOWS WHAT' and I couldn't leave my boyfriend's side to go hep her out.
What.
How I TALK DOWN TO HER AND MAKE HER FEEL STUPID
How I NEVER LET HER SIT IN THE MIDDLE OR HELPED HER WITH HER CAR SICKNESS AND HOW RUDE MY PARENTS WERE ON THE WAY HOME
Megan has been telling me all this, and Megan always stands up for me. She is jealous of our relationship, since Megan and I can do everything together and don't care what other people think. We don't care if we look silly, or cute, or are being loud. We have each other, and we tried to include her in everything we do.
Yet I'm the bad guy. I'm the one who never does anything for her. She owes me, AT LEAST 50 dollars in gas money. She has NEVER offered me one cent of it. Her mom gave her 500 bucks to go to Florida since they are trying to reconnect, and she never tells us that till the END of the trip. After my parents buy her meals, pay for her medicine and her groceries, since they thought she was tight on cash like Megan and I.
Yet she goes out and buys nice jewelry and tells us how guys just 'love to hit on her'. Megan and I DON'T CARE. megan has been with her boyfriend for FOUR YEARS and James and i have been together for almost 1 YEAR. We don't look at other guys. WE DON'T CARE.
I'm so sick of her saying such mean things about me to Megan, how rude I am and how 'SHE DOES'T DESERVE THIS KIND OF DRAMA'. EXCUSE ME?! I'm confronting her about ALL of this. I'm not taking her ANYWHERE ANYMORE. I'm sick of trying to hold on to this friendship and make it last. It's all about her, and that is all that matters. I'm not going to be mean to her, but once she can actually APOLOGIZE to me AND my family, then we can talk. But for now, I'm sick of her bullshit. I don't deserve this...
Okay, so I have a friend named Leslie, and she an I started to really hit it off near the end of Senior year. Anyways, her parents are kinda crazy, and shit went down in her house. I was always there for her to pick her up and get her out of her house. I was always there to pick her up from work when her mom refused to do it. I went OUT OF MY WAY to help this girl. I felt so bad for her. I'd hear her mom screaming at her over the phone when she would be at my house. Now Leslie does NOT have her license, or her own car because she used to have really bad seizures.
So finally, she gets kicked out around 1 am on a Friday night. A Night when I am not home, and I am out with my boyfriend about 40 minutes away from her. We were visiting his little brother and his step mother, having a good time. Again, I do not have my car. She calls me, saying how she has been kicked out. I tell her I can't do anything since we are so far away, I don't have my car, and James has been drinking so we were going to stay the night at his brother's house. I told her to call her boyfriend, get him to pick her up and stay there. She could NOT stay about my house, since it is already crammed. She wouldn't have her own room, let alone her own bed. But I figured her mom was just being a little crazy and would take her back in the morning. She ended up not doing that, only giving Leslie a few things and expects her to stay somewhere. Lucky for her, my friend Megan has an extra room at her house and they took her in. And we listened to all the terrible stories she told us of living in that house, how horrible her mother and father were. And we believed every little word that poured out of her mouth. I even found her a better job where she was surrounded by dogs and could be happy. I drove her to work and so did Megan AND Megan's boyfriend. We went out of her way to help her. I even invited her to go to Florida with megan and my family. Get this.
She sat in the back of the van with my sister and her friend, Megan and I in the middle. Each stop we made, we asked 'Hey Les, wanna sit in the middle?' "No no, I like the back!" Okay! On the way HOME from Florida, she got really car sick, so we let her sit in the middle the whole time. My parents got her medicine and Megan and I would switch back and forth from the front and the middle, since ti was crammed back there.
Well, let me tell you all the LIES she has been spewing about ME.
I never TRIED to come pick her up from her house when she got kicked out. I was only FIVE MINUTES AWAY WITH JAMES Doing 'GOD KNOWS WHAT' and I couldn't leave my boyfriend's side to go hep her out.
What.
How I TALK DOWN TO HER AND MAKE HER FEEL STUPID
How I NEVER LET HER SIT IN THE MIDDLE OR HELPED HER WITH HER CAR SICKNESS AND HOW RUDE MY PARENTS WERE ON THE WAY HOME
Megan has been telling me all this, and Megan always stands up for me. She is jealous of our relationship, since Megan and I can do everything together and don't care what other people think. We don't care if we look silly, or cute, or are being loud. We have each other, and we tried to include her in everything we do.
Yet I'm the bad guy. I'm the one who never does anything for her. She owes me, AT LEAST 50 dollars in gas money. She has NEVER offered me one cent of it. Her mom gave her 500 bucks to go to Florida since they are trying to reconnect, and she never tells us that till the END of the trip. After my parents buy her meals, pay for her medicine and her groceries, since they thought she was tight on cash like Megan and I.
Yet she goes out and buys nice jewelry and tells us how guys just 'love to hit on her'. Megan and I DON'T CARE. megan has been with her boyfriend for FOUR YEARS and James and i have been together for almost 1 YEAR. We don't look at other guys. WE DON'T CARE.
I'm so sick of her saying such mean things about me to Megan, how rude I am and how 'SHE DOES'T DESERVE THIS KIND OF DRAMA'. EXCUSE ME?! I'm confronting her about ALL of this. I'm not taking her ANYWHERE ANYMORE. I'm sick of trying to hold on to this friendship and make it last. It's all about her, and that is all that matters. I'm not going to be mean to her, but once she can actually APOLOGIZE to me AND my family, then we can talk. But for now, I'm sick of her bullshit. I don't deserve this...