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14 years ago
How is it that one day, I can feel hatred for someone and then, several weeks later, despite the fact that things are STILL sour, I can feel remorse and grief for my part in their pain? How is it that I can feel the pain of others and have it override even my own bias? And how can I ever expect to know someone else if I don't even know myself?
Dialga8
~dialga8
*hugs*
charizardcowman
!charizardcowman
I can't tell you that, and it all depends on how they acted towards you. You can't change the past, and even if they are in pain, you can't let them get away with wrongful acts, because they'll keep on doing it. Hatred needs to be directed towards the right place and the right people. Some people deserve it. Others don't, and THESE are the people you should feel sorry for and direct apology to. Just because a wicked person feel horrible for what you have done, you can't keep forgiving them, they'll only see it as right and keep doing it. I know myself that I wish people would forgive me of what can be forgiven, as I never did it out of spite or with intention of harming them. The things that fall into this category were because of bitter feelings and things they had no part in, and they just happened to stir up my emotions at the wrong time. I know you have had these points too, and it is just a matter of deciding who you need to apologize to and who you need to let figure it out for themselves.
