THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO NOT GIVING A FUCK
14 years ago
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I ran across this article earlier today. It's actually linked from a much smaller lifehacker article, which basically says "Go read this".
The one thing I think it leaves out is that the point of not caring is to have a more stable platform to care from. If you care ALL THE TIME about EVERYTHING, then the slightest thing can push you over, emotionally. But if you don't *have* to care....if you opt to care about the things you wish to, then you can care that much stronger. Like planting your feet before trying to push something, or pull something, or do some wacky karate move.
I ran across this article earlier today. It's actually linked from a much smaller lifehacker article, which basically says "Go read this".
The one thing I think it leaves out is that the point of not caring is to have a more stable platform to care from. If you care ALL THE TIME about EVERYTHING, then the slightest thing can push you over, emotionally. But if you don't *have* to care....if you opt to care about the things you wish to, then you can care that much stronger. Like planting your feet before trying to push something, or pull something, or do some wacky karate move.
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But seriously, way too much of Gawker's content anymore consists of "[link] Go read this." The article itself does have some pretty good instructions. People need to pick their battles, or they exhaust themselves trying to save every little thing.
I'm still young and must be ahead of the game!
Like a guy who really likes, say, being close to strangers on a bus. He may not care that we think he's creepy, but he's still fucking creepy as hell and invading my personal space and I swear the next time that dude rubs up against me on the bus I'm going to cut his balls off, seriously. Not cool, sweaty bearded man.
But mostly I'm saying this because I have a certain friend who doesn't really know what sort of sexual behaviors are acceptable in a public venue, and their excuse is "well I don't give a fuck, I want to live my life however I feel." Which, like I said, is cool and all but...I really don't want apathetic people humping me in the J.C Penny.
So yeah, don't let arbitrary boundaries influence you. But at the same time have some respect for things like personal space and personal hygiene and shit.
/rant
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