About Love...
14 years ago
Commissions: http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/1690704/
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I'd like to ask everyone a question. Feel free to answer or not.
What made you fall in love with your significant other?
Or, for those currently lacking in that area, what are you looking for in a potential significant other?
For me...well, quite frankly it was cause he loves me back. I've never experienced that feeling before, sans the obligatory family-type love.
Love ya wuffie.
What made you fall in love with your significant other?
Or, for those currently lacking in that area, what are you looking for in a potential significant other?
For me...well, quite frankly it was cause he loves me back. I've never experienced that feeling before, sans the obligatory family-type love.
Love ya wuffie.
FA+

Definitely a two way street of give and take if you know what I mean :)
That's who I'm looking for.
right now in my life, i hope one day i can make such a thing with
alas; i doubt that happiness will ever happen. i'll settle for what i have now though in the meantime :)
(not that being in a relationship with Jeff prior was terrible or anything...)
I've been after this one person for the past few years...Someone I fell for hard in my junior year in highschool....He was a heavy stoner and a bit of a druggie, but I didn't care..<3 Any attention from him was like heaven had come to Earth <3 he's broken my heart more than once, yet I've forgiven him...He's admittedly hidden the fact that we even hang out from pretty much everybody...He ignores me for stretches of time...He tells me that I can call or text him anytime I'm really upset so I don't end up hurting myself, yet whenever I've actually needed him for something he's just ignored me, which I fully expected anyway...And yes, this is the person I've fallen harder for than anyone else o.o
After I talk to him about this...God only knows the outcome...If he decides this is too much for him, which I wouldn't doubt, I think I'm gonna hold off on love for awhile...If I was gonna actually be actively looking again, I think I would look for someone who is actually interested in me and WANTS to be with me, yet also knows the value of spending some time apart too...Someone who will share a lot of common interests, yet is different enough to keep things interesting...Someone who can tolerate the idea of us meeting eachother's friends and maybe even families...Someone who doesn't have to believe in "no means no" because it'll just be a way of life for him...
Does this exist in a guy? I sure hope so...In the mean time, I think I just kinda wanna fall in love with my art and have some fun with that. o.o
I don't like to set expectations since I don't want to fit future into a defined box. But someone who will take me outside my comfort zone, get me to try new things, and experiences. Open person.
Then I found out he was fifteen (that's two years younger than what I was...still legal, but getting close to the creepy level)
Then I found out he was bi, but, he said, only felt love for girls, and he only liked guys in a sexual way.
THEN I got a crush on him...because he seemed sorta nice (I was, at the time, heartbroken and stuff...) but kept it quiet. Then his ex-girlfriend had some depression issues, and I helped Mid help her, and that brought us closer as friends.
AND THEN he got a crush on ME. And everything just kinda took off from there.
And now, we were able to meet up and know for sure that what we have is real...my parents are very supportive, and surprisingly, my mom has zero issue with the whole 'online bf who I met online' thing. Nor do that have an issue with me and him having sex the first time we meet (which they almost definitely know about, lol).
In all seriousness though, yeah, someone who can understand me and not give me weird looks for all the kooky things I do, someone I can just talk to about anything and everything, someone caring and stern, maybe a little romantic, and doesn't mind just laying around cuddling or holding hands...That's what I aim for.
We have some issues since it's... extremely far apart but.. I'm trying to work it out.
nah, i think it was because he loved me first =)
THANK YOU FURRIES :D, IM SO HAPPY IN SO MANY WAYS
Handsome
Smart
Clever
He speaks four or more languages.
He loves me more than anyone in the world.
He takes care of me.
I take care of him.
He makes me feel special.
But the person I'd love would also have to love animals, appreciate/love me as much as I love him, accept me for who I am (for the most part), like spending lots of time with me, and would have to be loyal and confident. :3