Going to AC/ Don't Molest me (I'm serious)
14 years ago
HEY FOLKS, sorry for two journals in such a short time;
Thanks to the amazing
dax I'll be roaming AC this year! Once we get closer to the con, I'll also offer Pre-order art to bring with me c:
I can't wait and I'm super excited ;u; <3
There is something I wanted to address with all of you that concerned me at FC this year though;
I like meeting new people and I love talking and chatting with people; it's especially an honor to talk to folks who know of my work from online, BUT...
I've noticed a problem I run into with furs that recognize me, specifically from this account. If you see me in suit, please respect my personal space!
I'm always happy to strike up conversation with you guys and chat, but just because I'm a fat fur artist it doesn't mean I want you to grab my stomach, ass or breasts in person. It's a very uncomfortable situation for me, and at FC I was really unhappy with the number of people who actually did this.
To answer a few questions for all of you so you don't have to molest me in suit;
Yes, I am a girl IRL.
Yes, that is my real body and no, the body of my fursuit is NOT padded.
Yes, I am offended if you grab my stomach, tits or ass,
YES, You can hug me as long as you ask or hug me from the front.
If you do this to me at the con, I'll warn you once and if you continue, I'll report you to con ops. Weather you consider "belly grabs" sexual harassment or not, it's still a form of molestation to me and I really don't appreciate it. I hate to sound mean, but the experiences I had at FC really made me uncomfortable to the point where I stopped suiting half way through the con.
Also, if you see me in suit and want to chat, just ask. I'm not serious at all about being silent in suit, and if you'd like I can easily step aside and take my head off for a friendly chat.
If you were one of the people that did this at FC, I'm not mad. I played very nice and didn't flip my lid and I can understand that you may have gotten the impression that it was okay.
Thanks to the amazing

I can't wait and I'm super excited ;u; <3
There is something I wanted to address with all of you that concerned me at FC this year though;
I like meeting new people and I love talking and chatting with people; it's especially an honor to talk to folks who know of my work from online, BUT...
I've noticed a problem I run into with furs that recognize me, specifically from this account. If you see me in suit, please respect my personal space!
I'm always happy to strike up conversation with you guys and chat, but just because I'm a fat fur artist it doesn't mean I want you to grab my stomach, ass or breasts in person. It's a very uncomfortable situation for me, and at FC I was really unhappy with the number of people who actually did this.
To answer a few questions for all of you so you don't have to molest me in suit;
Yes, I am a girl IRL.
Yes, that is my real body and no, the body of my fursuit is NOT padded.
Yes, I am offended if you grab my stomach, tits or ass,
YES, You can hug me as long as you ask or hug me from the front.
If you do this to me at the con, I'll warn you once and if you continue, I'll report you to con ops. Weather you consider "belly grabs" sexual harassment or not, it's still a form of molestation to me and I really don't appreciate it. I hate to sound mean, but the experiences I had at FC really made me uncomfortable to the point where I stopped suiting half way through the con.
Also, if you see me in suit and want to chat, just ask. I'm not serious at all about being silent in suit, and if you'd like I can easily step aside and take my head off for a friendly chat.
If you were one of the people that did this at FC, I'm not mad. I played very nice and didn't flip my lid and I can understand that you may have gotten the impression that it was okay.
Don't worry, I respect personal space. I wouldn't want somebody else up in mine, so why would I invade theirs?
I doubt you're one of the types to just RUN UP AND GRAB MY BELLY. lmao
And yeah - something about that just screams molestation, and I couldn't do that, even to a,close friend, without express permission. XD
I think the main problem is people assume my body suit is padded to look fat since there's not many heavy set suiters out there and lots of padded ones, haha.
The fact some thought that was a-ok makes me ultimate-sad. :c I mean, even when disregarding my hatred of being touched, that's just so uncivilized. :C
I'm really excited to get to see you again!!! Happy days! See you there!
I'm sorry that stuff happened to you.. I hope AC is better. I'll be looking for you, but here's hoping I cna recognize you on sight D:
Seems disgraceful that you even have to remind people about that. To paraphrase a humorist, it's like asking your dentist "Please don't make a videotape of your slapping me in the face with your dick while I'm under and post it on xtube, like last time*." It really should just be common sense.
*a bit wordy I know but, really, how often do you get an excuse to use that phrase.