Oh look, another mysogynist asshole!
14 years ago
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43302321/
Okay, so apparently this 35 year old man had a girlfriend who left him. OH AND BY THE WAY SHE WAS 18 AND DEVELOPMENTALLY DELAYED- LET'S GET THAT OUT THERE RIGHT NOW. 35 year old man who works at a college, and 18 year old developmentally delayed student at said college. That alone should tell you how this will go.
So, Captain Creeper is told that the 18 year old victim is pregnant, and apparently he wants to keep the baby, and she does not. Some kind of argument ensues, and victim and abuser separate, rather by mutual agreement or by force on the woman's part- that is unclear. At some point, the victim miscarries the baby.* So what does Captain Creeper do? He makes a GIANT FUCKING BILLBOARD ADVERTISEMENT ABOUT THE WOMAN "KILLING" THE FETUS AND PLASTERS IT ON THE SIDE OF THE HIGHWAY.
It gets even more convoluted- Apparently this defender of the defenseless, this crusader for fetuses, this bereaved father who just wanted to hold his child- already has at least one child that he does not take care of, as evidenced by the child support court record here-
http://s3.amazonaws.com/data.tumblr.....dhUI1nP6tbw%3D
Also, he thinks domestic violence jokes are HILARIOUS, guys! You can see several of his favorites just by clickin' on his twitter! Don't forget- domestic violence isn't funny. :l But joking about it sure is! :D
http://twitter.com/#!/prdpgn
Here's a slideshow of all his misogynistic tweets-
http://s1223.photobucket.com/albums.....view=slideshow
Anyone want to take bets on how battered and broken this poor girl was by the time this creeper was done with her?
Seriously, this is sick. None of this seems to have anything to do with wanting to keep that fetus, or about how he loved his girlfriend and wanted to help and support her through her pregnancy and help her raise a child. This seems to be more about how he was left, he was ignored, and now he wants revenge, like a petty, whining child. This reminds me so much of Eric it makes me ill. Literally ill. I want to bring this girl a chai tea and a pillow pet and a gift card for lots and lots of extensive therapy so she can get this behind her and find a real man who dates women his own age and treats other people like human beings and not like extensions of his inflated ego to control and beat on.
There's not a whole lot we can do, but there is a website taking messages of support for this poor girl-
http://www.fortheloveofnani.com/call-to-action.php
And so just dropping a quick message through might make a difference. It's a drop in the bucket, but I know first hand- and I know a couple of people reading this do, too- how isolating domestic violence is, and the amount of victim blaming that goes on.
I still just...such rage.
* While the news report says it is unclear whether she miscarried or aborted the pregnancy, she says she miscarried, so as far as I'm concerned, she miscarried. This poor girl has been dragged through enough.
Okay, so apparently this 35 year old man had a girlfriend who left him. OH AND BY THE WAY SHE WAS 18 AND DEVELOPMENTALLY DELAYED- LET'S GET THAT OUT THERE RIGHT NOW. 35 year old man who works at a college, and 18 year old developmentally delayed student at said college. That alone should tell you how this will go.
So, Captain Creeper is told that the 18 year old victim is pregnant, and apparently he wants to keep the baby, and she does not. Some kind of argument ensues, and victim and abuser separate, rather by mutual agreement or by force on the woman's part- that is unclear. At some point, the victim miscarries the baby.* So what does Captain Creeper do? He makes a GIANT FUCKING BILLBOARD ADVERTISEMENT ABOUT THE WOMAN "KILLING" THE FETUS AND PLASTERS IT ON THE SIDE OF THE HIGHWAY.
It gets even more convoluted- Apparently this defender of the defenseless, this crusader for fetuses, this bereaved father who just wanted to hold his child- already has at least one child that he does not take care of, as evidenced by the child support court record here-
http://s3.amazonaws.com/data.tumblr.....dhUI1nP6tbw%3D
Also, he thinks domestic violence jokes are HILARIOUS, guys! You can see several of his favorites just by clickin' on his twitter! Don't forget- domestic violence isn't funny. :l But joking about it sure is! :D
http://twitter.com/#!/prdpgn
Here's a slideshow of all his misogynistic tweets-
http://s1223.photobucket.com/albums.....view=slideshow
Anyone want to take bets on how battered and broken this poor girl was by the time this creeper was done with her?
Seriously, this is sick. None of this seems to have anything to do with wanting to keep that fetus, or about how he loved his girlfriend and wanted to help and support her through her pregnancy and help her raise a child. This seems to be more about how he was left, he was ignored, and now he wants revenge, like a petty, whining child. This reminds me so much of Eric it makes me ill. Literally ill. I want to bring this girl a chai tea and a pillow pet and a gift card for lots and lots of extensive therapy so she can get this behind her and find a real man who dates women his own age and treats other people like human beings and not like extensions of his inflated ego to control and beat on.
There's not a whole lot we can do, but there is a website taking messages of support for this poor girl-
http://www.fortheloveofnani.com/call-to-action.php
And so just dropping a quick message through might make a difference. It's a drop in the bucket, but I know first hand- and I know a couple of people reading this do, too- how isolating domestic violence is, and the amount of victim blaming that goes on.
I still just...such rage.
* While the news report says it is unclear whether she miscarried or aborted the pregnancy, she says she miscarried, so as far as I'm concerned, she miscarried. This poor girl has been dragged through enough.
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Akyana
It's all here.
But really, even if she'd had an abortion- that's within her rights. Her body doesn't belong to him and he has no right to the pregnancy until a baby is born, and attempting to shame her for her choice- especially not knowing if she even made that choice or not- is completely asinine. There's nothing that can be said or done to validate this guy's actions.
I don't even think this is plain misogyny, this is just assault! Luckily there seems to be a lot of proof that this man is violent and insane, so even though the situation is forty kinds of terrible, the prosecutor should be able to get him on at least harassment and assault. Hopefully the poor girl will be able to get a restraining order too :(