Any gain is a gain. Whether it's a little or a lot, it's still a step forward. <3

THIS

:nod:

*hug* You know I'm always around if you need me.

I remember it could be worse. I don't mean that in a depreciating way either. But perspective helps put what is and is not important in better focus, and clarifies some decisions. I'm not happy with how my life is, but I am damn glad I can drive my car, live in my house, and sleep next to my husband. The rest is little stuff in comparison to what I could lose.

No harm done. I knew exactly what you meant. :nod:

I save it up. (even if it's little gained)
Take a smidgeon out.
Spend the smidgeon on friends.
Rinse. Repeat.

It's like shampoo!

eat cheesecake, watch Law and Order SVU, and plot my course for advancement in an aspect of my life

Cheezcake! Though I'd probably watch.. something else.

I look for a way to change the situation. Right now, it's going to be college. It used to be finding a new job. If it's with a hobby or talent, you rethink the situation and double your efforts in the field, or tell yourself you are happy where you are at and believe it.

I would hope if I got to that point, I'd naturally feel happy and wouldn't have to tell myself to feel happy, but I understand what you mean completely. Thank you for the insight.

Remember that it could be a step backwards, then hide in a hole until it doesn't feel like a crippling loss anyways and go back to it.

Nothing shameful in a strategic retreat to gather your thoughts.

Thank you Li~

I'd just be thankful for having a job as poor and destitute as I am.

Exactly the conclusion I came to a while ago. Thank you~

I always find a good long fight helps vent this feeling but eh my opinion isnt one to go by. Best advice I can give is listen to this tune might help all be it a little. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ynB.....;feature=share

Mmmm, no I know what you mean, however my fights take place in my mind~ choreographed and scripted though perfectly remembered to give me something to animate in the future.

and a good song there~

Heh though your way is a bit more healthy for ones personal health that isnt what I meant