wow what douches

Can't say I blame you. Very sorry to hear that all of this has been happening though. *hugs* Been kinda in a similar though different rut myself.

butt o-o

Well played lol

peench peench :P

I'm really sorry to hear that... I won't blame you. You just have to be careful when it comes to making new friends.
I can give you a big hug to cheer you up. *Big Hug*

*hugs you*

It would seem kind of creepy myself if someone I didn't know started asking me detailed questions about my actual self. Most stuff is ok but I shrug off anything that gets too private with someone I don't really know that well.

Exactly, I barely knew the guy and when we would talk he would ask personal questions, been going through a lot of stress lately so I haven't been in the best of moods. but when you blow up on someone for not wanting to talk about it thats a bit extreme and that person should really think about their actions.

*hugs* It can get pretty stressful the more well known your char and such becomes. I usually have to deal with quite a few IMs when I get home from work and I usually just tune most of it out so I can get a chance to relax and make dinner. Not much you can really do for it that to just try and let it slide off you. Some people will get mad that you don't share certain things with them or don't respond back to them as much as they'd like. Part of the reason I removed what my messengers were on my FA page and made them ask only so I can get a feel for someone through notes in FA before I give over more information.

Yeah and its to bad people still blow up on me for it, its also causing me to (by force of FA admins) remove a piece of art. Granted I dont care if its removed ether way since it was his gift to me when we where friends, but it was mostly a butter me up gift to get info out of me.

Don;t worry NaV. These people tend to get what is coming to them. Best thing you can do is just ignore then and find a way to remove them from being able to watch you. I know it can be rough but things like these happen. Just know you are a lot stronger than these types of people and hold your head high.

Sadly I had to feel this as well NaV. I know how you feel ALOT trust me....I had to leave for about a week or two. But Im very truely sorry it happened to you. It shouldnt happen to anyone. Some people are just immature and honestly they dont deserve friends if they are going to act that way to you for not sharing something personal. Because they just need to learn that guess what...its your choice whether to share that kind of info or not. And if they cant handle that then they really dont have any right being your friend in the beginning.

But as I learned it might be hard but in the end you usually do find out who your real friends are....even if someone who was once good turns their back on you and does something to hurt you instead. Because lets all see the facts. Friends are there to help and support you and never hurt you or have an intent to hurt you.

People like that just dont deserve friends and I hope they one who did this to you ends up understanding the lesson even if it means that this person loses all his friends. It might be hard but people with the kind of personality to hold stuff over your head are just bad juju.

Again tho NaV Im very sorry you had to go through this and I hope you'll be ok.

Yeah I know and its sad that he wont let people see the truth. So I guess im the bad guy

Dont think that way hun. Your not the bad guy here. Just because you have free will does NOT make you the bad guy. If he wants to start drama over all this then BUMP him! You have your own choices and you have a right to use them! Its not on him or anyone to cast judgement on you at all.

Your not a bad guy NaV dont let this douche make you think that

Well reading all of his journals and putting words in my mouth, makes it kind of hard, i liked the current one in a response above.

Whoa whoa...it was him?!?! Ok first off I dont want to say anything really mean here just I was friends with him as well until he decided to get mad at me and tell me we werent friends anymore because I quote "You got almost the same position in a picture with another of your friends we were going to get in ours....so I dont have anything left to feel for you"

Now with that said you arent the bad guy here. Trust me. I dont want to be mean or anything like that. But he has problems of some kind. I tried to be nice to him alot and in the end I got his some giftart and he kinda just stabbed me in the back as well.

Your not a bad guy NaV...this guy just has some real jealousy issues and alot more. Im not even sure what the rest are but again. Its all him. None of its you. So just let him talk and Bawww some more because he's heading down the way of not having a single friend if hes going to be that way

And I know exactly how you feel as well, I did nothing wrong but this time im not taking this abuse sitting down. But yeah, he has issues

Well you arent the bad guy so no worries there hun. But I wont say anymore just in case there is more drama to be stirred up since I dont like it myself.

Again tho Im sorry this all happened to you and I hope it blows by quickly. Also good for you! Stand up for yourself I highly respect that!

Shouldnt, not unless he still wants to be a spoiled crybaby still, the fact that he stuck around to spy on others out of jealousy when I was still "friends" with em makes me think he will be watching for a wile, hence why he is still watching me. Also nobody calls me generic

Well its understandable! But you just stay strong and be cool because as long as your the bigger person it will all work in your favor!

But yea he might or he might not, it all depends really. But all in all dont let it get to you NaV. Just know your not a bad guy and its not your fault

*hugs* people suck and karma will catch up to them. Drama is inevitable in this fandom and it is best to ignore it and move on. People who stir shit up are not worth the time. If you fall in to the drama side of furry it is possible to never leave since most are self serving homosexuals. A few years back I made the decision to become somewhat detached from most of the furry BS out here and it has been a great decision although I don't make fantastic furry friends really quickly I make fantastic friends over time.