A rose by any other name
14 years ago
General
So, my sister probably has a form of autism. I'm thinking Asperger's, been thinking that for about a year now, but now a doctor thinks so. There was a list of possible symptoms under each category of delayed development- Language, Social, Motor- and most were social. some can be attributed to her adhd, but there were enough to warrant a second test. it'll be a blind test.
she seems to have an affinity for dieases and disorders starting with "a"
-allergies
-adhd
-arthritis
-asthma
-aspergers/autism
i feel like i'm missing one... oh well. <sighs>
i've expected the news, so it didn't come as a shock to me, but my mom was stunned. so, i sat with her and discussed all the positives and dismissed some rumored negatives. and also, this line came up.
"a rose by any other name smells just as sweet" <or something similar enough, i hadn't read r&j in awhile>
No matter what labels come up, be it gay or autistic, stupid or ugly, smart or atheist, christian or whatever else you can come up with, you are always yourself. In my religion, everyone has a soul. the body we are put in are in God's image, so there is nothing to be ashamed of.
and if you still feel bad about yourself, just dance away with some friends to Born This Way. Sing it bad, but loud and proud. =3
she seems to have an affinity for dieases and disorders starting with "a"
-allergies
-adhd
-arthritis
-asthma
-aspergers/autism
i feel like i'm missing one... oh well. <sighs>
i've expected the news, so it didn't come as a shock to me, but my mom was stunned. so, i sat with her and discussed all the positives and dismissed some rumored negatives. and also, this line came up.
"a rose by any other name smells just as sweet" <or something similar enough, i hadn't read r&j in awhile>
No matter what labels come up, be it gay or autistic, stupid or ugly, smart or atheist, christian or whatever else you can come up with, you are always yourself. In my religion, everyone has a soul. the body we are put in are in God's image, so there is nothing to be ashamed of.
and if you still feel bad about yourself, just dance away with some friends to Born This Way. Sing it bad, but loud and proud. =3
RandomBox
~randombox
im confused.
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
8 year-old sister has Asperger's
RandomBox
~randombox
i dont know what that is.
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
it's a form of Autism
RandomBox
~randombox
oh.....my best friend has auitism and adhd.....sorry, dude.
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
yup, she has adhd too >.< i'll treat her the same cause i see her the same though. she's still my sister
RandomBox
~randombox
yeah......well, im gonna go make some art.
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
Awesome! have fun!
tamurross
~tamurross
I have a mild form of Asperger's
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
when i know for sure about her, would it be alright to ask you questions? i know everyone experiences it differently, but anything would help
tamurross
~tamurross
Sure ^^ I'll try my best
AmyTigre
~amytigre
A friend of mine has/had asperger's. He wasn't diagnosed until he was a teen but aside from one thing he sure doesn't exhibit anything and hes 26 now. I love that song too, it seriously helps me feel good about myself.
bryanlutra
~bryanlutra
OP
Best line is "god makes no mistakes" <3 And seriously, Asperger's/autism is just a different way of thinking, there is this bad connotation that it's a debilitating mental disability. it's not retardation like Down's Syndrome, people live 'regular' lives with it. <lol, regular>
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