Okay, like i already know my learning curve is not upto par with most of you guys out there in this FA community, so forgive me here, but after going to my first AC ever and observing the interactions and the relationships, i've come to a couple realizations. The first is that BDSM might not actually be as much a part of what I call the D/s side/relationships of the furry world, excuse me, fandom, as I might have orignally thought. From what I have been able to ascertain it is more in the wolfpack set-up, am I right??

And secondly, is it really more common for a male to be the alpha instead of a female?? Like am I in the minority for being the Domme/alpha instead of my now ex-Master?? (W/we just were not working out with him on Top). Cuz I met multiple partners who were involved not romantically, but in a D/s fashion and it seems for the most part the female was the "beta" instead of the alpha and so I just would like feedback, personal experiences, etc., and tell me if what I observed is accurate or whatever. If so, then this is definitely a switch, no pun intended, from my BDSM side. Thanks.