*sigh* guys, am I being an asshole?
14 years ago
-.- god today just sucks, and that happened last night X3
so, for the last month, I have been continuously going to my mothers, working over there to get the house ready for a big moving sale. For those who don't know, my mom, my brothers, and my grandmother, my step father, and my aunt, uncle and cousins are all moving down to North Carolina (in a town that is mentioned in the Andy Griffith show XD)
So I do that, right? taking a LOT of shit from my mom and some from my siblings even though I don't have to be there...I mean, I AM NOT MOVING WITH THEM and I DON'T EVEN LIVE THERE but I am doing this anyways out of the usual cliche's, love and family values, blah blah blah...
so, I then work for the last week, the ENTIRE week at this moving sale, mostly downstairs selling things and running up to ask mom or grandma about prices for things I didn't know, again I don't need to be there, but I choose to willingly taking a LOT of shit from both my mother and my siblings while I am helping them sell, helping moving things around, and helping closing up shop.
So now, this next week my mother tells me I HAVE to go over there...AGAIN to help them pack up for the big move and taking what wasn't sold to the Goodwill place. WTF!? I guess you give a dog enough meat for a while it expects that much or more later >.<
So I decide I'm not going to go. Fuck that! I helped out enough, bon voyage family! -.-...nope, my mate tells me that I have to go help them, tossing up how I need to help my grandmother because my brothers are lasy when it comes to this move, and mom is still in work up here(!?) and always f-s things up when she comes back from what my grandma was doing for the entire day(my words, not hers, lol)
WHAT THE HELL!? should I go down with them and help them unpack as well? I just did months worth of work a month, and now I have to help out thankless shits one last time!? I really don't want to go, but now I'm feeling terrible that I'm not, mostly from my mate and my grandmother. So I ask you guys, please be perfectly honest...me not going to help them move out, despite my already above and beyond the call of duty efforts, does this make me an asshole? and should I get going?
so, for the last month, I have been continuously going to my mothers, working over there to get the house ready for a big moving sale. For those who don't know, my mom, my brothers, and my grandmother, my step father, and my aunt, uncle and cousins are all moving down to North Carolina (in a town that is mentioned in the Andy Griffith show XD)
So I do that, right? taking a LOT of shit from my mom and some from my siblings even though I don't have to be there...I mean, I AM NOT MOVING WITH THEM and I DON'T EVEN LIVE THERE but I am doing this anyways out of the usual cliche's, love and family values, blah blah blah...
so, I then work for the last week, the ENTIRE week at this moving sale, mostly downstairs selling things and running up to ask mom or grandma about prices for things I didn't know, again I don't need to be there, but I choose to willingly taking a LOT of shit from both my mother and my siblings while I am helping them sell, helping moving things around, and helping closing up shop.
So now, this next week my mother tells me I HAVE to go over there...AGAIN to help them pack up for the big move and taking what wasn't sold to the Goodwill place. WTF!? I guess you give a dog enough meat for a while it expects that much or more later >.<
So I decide I'm not going to go. Fuck that! I helped out enough, bon voyage family! -.-...nope, my mate tells me that I have to go help them, tossing up how I need to help my grandmother because my brothers are lasy when it comes to this move, and mom is still in work up here(!?) and always f-s things up when she comes back from what my grandma was doing for the entire day(my words, not hers, lol)
WHAT THE HELL!? should I go down with them and help them unpack as well? I just did months worth of work a month, and now I have to help out thankless shits one last time!? I really don't want to go, but now I'm feeling terrible that I'm not, mostly from my mate and my grandmother. So I ask you guys, please be perfectly honest...me not going to help them move out, despite my already above and beyond the call of duty efforts, does this make me an asshole? and should I get going?
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but yeah...it's leaning towards going, so I might vanish towards my clans home ^^