have you sat down and openly talked to a professional of any sort?

or even a close person?

sometimes talking and getting it off your chest can be a massive help, it was for me when I was going through some horrible times.

*hugs* if I can help at all let me know. Don't do anything rash. We'd miss you too much.

Lisen Vary Vary Closely, YOu mean Evrything to me your funny your awesome your fun to talk to and You Helped me feel better more then Onces girl if you even THINK abut feeling like thid you know i'm here for you when ever you need to talk i'm always open SHIT if you want i can give you my phone number, I only want to see you smile so plase...Talk to me if you have to

*hugs*

if you need to talk I'm free to listen. I may just seem as just another online entity but I really do care.

Never, EVER think like that. I may not know exactly what your going through, I doubt none of us do, but I'm sure a couple of us have a good idea of what your feeling. You can't let yourself fall apart, you need to stay strong and have faith in who you are. Shit happens, sometimes it's REALLY bad shit...things we honestly believe we can't recover from. You can though. It's not easy, it's actually quite hard...you may not believe in yourself right now, but work towards it. You can't let yourself be defeated by anything, especially things that are this hard,

Understand that you are cared for, by us, your friends, family, everyone. What you need to do, is talk... Maybe not to us, but to someone your can trust. Parents, perhaps a teacher or someone you respect.

Don't be defeated, don't let this beat you, become stronger from it.

We care, okay?

One of the reasons you have to live. Those pics of those kids coming up to you when you're in your fursuit. One of them could be going through some tough shit at home or at school and you give them one moment of happiness. Tough times are just another part of everyone's legacy. And things will improve, believe me I know.

Hon, these are pretty normal feelings in a breakup. People tend to get scared when you say things like "I don't feel like I have a reason to live," but honestly, that's a very normal feeling in your situation. If you *didn't* feel extremely hurt and bereft right now, that'd be a concerning sign.

Breakups are almost never gentle or easy things. Once in a great while they are, I suppose, but in most real-world cases, no, they're downright excruciating. As breakups usually take the form of one person approaching the other with "it's not working and I want to end it," there's always one party who feels cheated, betrayed, and frankly, sometimes used. It's hard to think of the breakup as an attempt at honesty, rather than a reminder that the desire to break up probably started before one party even realized there was a problem -- but ultimately, that's what breaking up is; an attempt to come clean, to admit it's not working, and to agree to move on.

The reason is takes a while, in most cases, is that the person initiating the breakup still cares very much about the other person, doesn't want to hurt him/her, and wants to believe that this can be worked through, fixed, the breakup can be avoided. That "I was strung along and used" feeling you talk about is natural, but often, the very reason you were "strung along" was hope on the other person's part that breakup wasn't necessary.

Again, what you're feeling is completely normal. The best advice I can give you is to surround yourself with people who care about you, get as busy as you can be on things that make you happy, and be kind to yourself and to the memories of your ex. I spent a decade of my life being angry at my ex, and all I had to show for it, ultimately, was bitterness.

Remember that you are awesome, and that one day, if you wish to, you will indeed love again. Also remember that the process of starting and ending relationships, painful as it is, teaches us a lot about ourselves and others, and helps us ultimately learn more about what we need in a relationship, and what we have to give in one. Pain is learning, as unpleasant as it can be, and that is the "silver lining" of this moment in your life, as dismal a consolation as that surely.

Your friends love you and care about you. I realize that's not quite the same as the love one has in a relationship, but it's what we have to give you right now. Remember that you are important to us, you are special to us, and we worry about you and want to help you get through this.

You're going to be okay, hon. It gets better. It takes time, but I promise, it does get better. And we'll be here to keep you company, and cheer for you, along the way.

(I hope this is okay. You've talked about your feelings here, so I figured the "don't talk to me about this" request had been superceded.)