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Venting- Drama.
14 years ago
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Thankfully, I never have too much trouble on the internet. I'm usually a very passive person. But recently, I just dont know. I dont normally post journals out side of my works, so please allow me this one time to do so.
When to leave someone alone? When they ask you to. When they tell you to. Dont push it any further.
When you are blocked by them should you contact them? Usually not. When they block your FA, IMs and Email- thats a good sign to leave them alone.
Contacting their friends or loved ones will not help your standing. It takes two for a friendship. If one party DOES NOT WANT IT then it will not happen.
Also, bad mouthing your friends both current and former, does have a way to get back to them. Moreover if they care about the person you're bad mouthing.
Pinning blame on them because they will not hear you out will not help the matters. A great friendship might have been had before, but if its abused long enough it wont last. A persons actions speak louder than their words. Think of friendship like a bank account. Its a give and take. But if one side takes with out putting more in, it will go into the red. If a friendship breaks, or explodes and the other party has no interest in rekindling it, leave it.
In the end this is my message to a certain person. Leave me alone. This is harrassment and I will not tollerate it. Consider this my final warning. I will contact who I need to to have this taken care of if this continues. If you actually cared about me, then you would let me live my life the way I decide to.
When to leave someone alone? When they ask you to. When they tell you to. Dont push it any further.
When you are blocked by them should you contact them? Usually not. When they block your FA, IMs and Email- thats a good sign to leave them alone.
Contacting their friends or loved ones will not help your standing. It takes two for a friendship. If one party DOES NOT WANT IT then it will not happen.
Also, bad mouthing your friends both current and former, does have a way to get back to them. Moreover if they care about the person you're bad mouthing.
Pinning blame on them because they will not hear you out will not help the matters. A great friendship might have been had before, but if its abused long enough it wont last. A persons actions speak louder than their words. Think of friendship like a bank account. Its a give and take. But if one side takes with out putting more in, it will go into the red. If a friendship breaks, or explodes and the other party has no interest in rekindling it, leave it.
In the end this is my message to a certain person. Leave me alone. This is harrassment and I will not tollerate it. Consider this my final warning. I will contact who I need to to have this taken care of if this continues. If you actually cared about me, then you would let me live my life the way I decide to.
You'll get it all figured out. :)
Hang in there, buddy.
Sorry that people feel the need to push things this far. Some people just don't get it. Sometimes you do things that ruin relationships, or the potential to fix them- and if that's the case, they are better off walking away and leaving things be than constantly pushing the issue, and creating even more bad blood.