Ok, so today my grandmother drops a huge bomb on my mother and I. She went to the doctor recently about pains and numbness shes been experiencing for about a year and a half off and on. He said that they were mini-strokes and that she needs to go to the hospital for more testing. She doesn't believe him and even told him that he better not send her in for testing until some time next week because she wants to do more camping. The only reason my mother and I even know any of this is because my grandfather made Gramma call us and tell us, she doesn't think its a big deal and 'doesn't want to be a bother'. I have no idea what to think about all of this, all I know is that I'm seriously pissed at her for endangering herself like this.

thanks for listening, if you have any advice for me i would appreciate it, or if you want to offer hugs or send me a comforting note or whatever, i would appreciate that more