Well, I guess some people handle it better. You really gotta like it or love the guy that you're doing it with. If you're doing it just to try there's a big possibility it'll just make your rear hurt.
Also, most people just get disgusted by thinking about a cock going up the hole that you use to defecate - It's the reality, but there's something called "cleaning up" before anal sex.
The thing is, if you do it right, gently and with the guy you love, it can be a very good experience =3
Well back in the pre AIDS day the biggest trouble was guys who either had not experience... either never having done it all. Or never having been on the receiving end, and not understanding they needed to go slow at first to let the bottom adjust to penetration. So they would just slam it into you with painful results, of course that is why or at least one of the reasons why I developed the anal muscle control I have. Being able to open yourself up quickly comes in handy... and startles the Doctor when he goes to do a prostate exam Hahah...
Also lubes use to be a pain, oil based lubes were either to tacty or heated up and took away a lot of the sensation on the prostate... the water based lubes took care of all that.
Yes there is a lot in knowing how, its not like all those pornos where everything is perfect automatically it takes effort and knowledge and planning for best results
My social problems teacher said during Gay Week (the week of the class where it was about LGBT and the problems society has with it (Social Problems) and he stated, "The rectum is like wet paper towels, so you can see why gay men got AIDs more then anyone else.
True, a big problem is that the rectum is not very strong, and especially when the partner is rigorous there can be tearing, which usually is common but minor, although it can be a big problem, especially if you do no take a break if there is tearing.
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Also, most people just get disgusted by thinking about a cock going up the hole that you use to defecate - It's the reality, but there's something called "cleaning up" before anal sex.
The thing is, if you do it right, gently and with the guy you love, it can be a very good experience =3
Also lubes use to be a pain, oil based lubes were either to tacty or heated up and took away a lot of the sensation on the prostate... the water based lubes took care of all that.