Sorry to hear things are not going so awesomely for you, but it's okay to feel hurt the good news is you don't have to stay that way all the time things will get better but it won't happen fast.

I believe people when they are saying you are a great guy, you sound quite sensitive and kind.

Hold on, keep looking for the light, don't fall into the darkness, keep looking, keep challenging yourself to be better.

Best of luck and i'll keep you in my thoughts.

You can't stay depressed forever man. Gotta push on. It can't all be bad. Don't worry I'm sure something will make it better.

Hey, man, itll be alright. <3 I know it sucks, but this entire summer seems to have been the Summer of /Tears/ for me and like a bunch of people I know. xD

Whatevers bothering you, 2 weeks or 20, its not going to go away until you make it go away. And if whatever it is is all in your head, or something you can help, then get on it! Relationships especially, can be dodgy. Id say not to depend on someone emotionally, until you can depend on yourself. And if the prospect of being with someone is such a factor, then work on it! Try to better yourself into a man you know youd want to go out with. But at the end of the day, remember that we have to be happy with who we are, if were gonna be happy at all.


Anywho, I hope things get better.

*Huggles* I agree with Brad. You have to push on. You can't let this stop your life cold. There are so many better things in life. I know how rejection is, bud. I've been down that road. But, I keep pressing on because I have great friends and other activities to do. Best of luck to ya.

I'm sorry to hear that. Me and a guy I was interested in decided to stop seeing each other because of personal problems, at least for now.

A little of  Runt, a lot of  majorra and this: If you don´t love yourself, how do you expect love from others?

I do hope something good comes along to help cheer you up and keep you cheered up and not depressed. ^^

Don't feel like you need to be in a relationship to not be alone. Just try to keep some nice friends around you. A relationship will come together for you at some point, and until then, don't worry too much.

Yeah, it's easier said than done, but hopefully you'll be able to get on-track. =)

Take it from someone who chose to fall into the darkness... it isn't worth it... believe me... I gave up and then i found a wonderful person... but you don't get second chances often...

*hugs you*

I know it's an hard time and than we all live all around the world, but don't think you're alone.

You have here a lot of guys who cares at least a bit about you, and who hope than you'll find someone soon.

We all spent month and sometimes years nights on a twice too large bed.

An when you expect it the less, sometimes, a guy who erased the word "but" of his vocabulary enters in your life.

So, waiting for him, go to some parties and have fun. Maybe he'll be not here, but his cousin or his bro will be, and you'll know him that way.

Waiting for him, take care of you.

Some of the people here have already said some valid things. I know what it feels like to have to break up with someone. and how depressing it feels to be alone sometimes.. but some people try to devote their lives fixated on developing a relationship. if you feel that there is no one of interest to you for now. focus on other things that make you happy. look inward and explore things about yourself while you have this time to yourself. perhaps in time you'll find someone and want to pursue him. and when that day comes I wish you all the best of luck.

... I know that feeling too... if love is not for you, may be friendship it is... loneliness is something I forget when I'm with worthy friends

Mate, you are singing the story of my life. Though, I invest years in relationships that i am in totally alone and by the time i get the news i am alone in it I've made myself the fool. That kind of pain is enough to know any man onto his ass.

but you're stronger than that.

I am here for you if you need to talk I', serious and i still want you to seek professional help this depression concerns me deeply

Sometimes depression is repressed ANGER that we 'great guys' do not know how to express.

Maybe its just me, but being the "Great Guy" is not a problem. Love and sex are over rated. If one needs love and sex, getting a crew together of good friends with "Benefits" work a lot better than finding a mate in my book. Why limit yourself to just one person, when you can have friends across the state and country you can see from time to time to enjoy their company at just the right moments. Love comes and goes to much, but lust is where you have your fun time at. Be that "Most Entertaining Guy In The World". Not as far as he goes, but being yourself and letting others come to you. Not getting to close, but making them good friends with benefits, so they long for you to come around and not you getting hurt by them.

*pats and hugs you*

Maybe you should take a break from finding the right guy for now... You have great friends around you... Hang out with them... Make memories with them... Seek companionship with them... Who knows, you might even find the right guy among them...

As for your depression, try to seek professional help... And always remember that there are people there for you and would do their best to try and help you...

Cyber.

I know a few good friends of mine who have really gone through the same hurt your feeling too. And it saddens me alot to see you and them get upset by themselves so much, because you have so much wonderful things to offer someone. But please dont give up on yourself completely my friend.
There are millions of people in the world. Some will be magically connected with you, and of course there are ones that just arent suited well. But what your doing is siving through the ones that wouldnt give you the full wonderous happiness you are so deserving, that f course everyone deserves. Do not see this as a letdown. It is progress, as you journey your way to find a person you can truely enjoy within their company.

Yet, i do seem to agree with the gentleman above me  danmaku1691 . As of now, do not keep ponding the idea of being unloved with someone. Your time will come. As of now, Cherish all that you can with caring and supportive pals. Let life just go naturally. Perhaps just let someone come to you, rather you go looking for someone. It gives you space to concentrate on other things and let yourself flow through things naturally.
Cyber. You still have a wonderful life to forfill. And i know for certain that by your next birthday, you will have someone special to call your own. I would happily bet money on that.

Again, like ive said in the last journal, im not good at advise sometimes so if any of this seems like bad advice, you very welcome to not take it in. I just want to help any way i can.

Hope this and all the other messages have really helped you out. We are all here for you my friend. Anytimre,

Bit what Majjora, Lionus + Meadbeard said + the [Corny] old saying "Love comes when you don't expect it"

Also keep doing what you do, weather thats your Art or playing COH, sitting around mopping and dwelling on it is going to eat away at you like a cancer... I had a schoolfriend die 5 months ago yesterday and I was so depressed I could have cried most days for ages, but you just have to mentally pull yourself up and GET OVER THESE THINGS otherwise they eat you up and consume you

Also [Again might sound corny] but you're lucking growing up in a Internet world where you can blog things like this or post Art and have others say how much they like it, online game, get your comics made up + Printed etc.... trust me I REALLY felt alone when I was coming to terms with being Gay + a Furry in my Teens and it wasn't as simple as "Go Online" I thought I'd be alone FOREVER

You're a great guy. I can tell you put a lot of thought into making other people happy. Just take care of yourself and try to feel comfortable in your own skin. Self-flagellation is not a happy pastime.