the best i could offer is to be honest with him and tell him what happened and all that and try to talk it out... .though holding it in for so long..... not really gonna help much. though i have never cheated on any boyfriend i have ever had so really i can only say based on what i would feel if i had been cheated on what i would wish my mate to do. i do hope that all works out well.

thanks JacobPheonix I did that, but thanks for the input

i'm sure if it is true love between you and your boyfriend then things will work out eventually.

I hope so

^_^ though i suggest from now on when you feel things may be heading towards that kind of direction again tell your boyfriend that you really need to talk to him about how you are feeling and why you think you are feeling the way you are.

agreed thank you

quite welcome hun.

:)

always happy to help ^_^

I'm not sure I understand. You told someone you and your boyfriend broke up?

No Tsukun I was feeling unwanted and started talking to someone..

Ah. I see....well, you have to be honest with them both...Mr. Lukar seems to have good advice. If you want to talk anymore about it you could always note me or something...

alright will do

I'm sorry, bro. :/ *Hugs* I know how it feels. I sorta did something similar a while back...

Choose to stay with the person who you love more, and be honest with them both. That's honestly the only advice I can really give. It's a hit or miss, but for me, it was a hit; it saved my relationship. Not only that, but it's the right thing to do.

At the same time, though, remember that doing this isn't a good thing. Don't let it get to you from now on, but every time something happens, and you feel like you might want to look for somebody else, remember what happened when you did it before. That should be reason enough not to do it again.

I hope I helped. I'm here if you need me.

Wow...thank you buddy....and i am being honest and im trying my hardest

UPDATE: I don't feel as bad we are friends still and hes going to watch me preform alumni friday and support me(due to an ex type person being in band now) so yeah...

Oh, so you guys broke up after all? ._. At least you're still friends.