wise choice. as much as it sounds like i'm just being a dick about it. (gota think of the sanest first sadly. and if she is choosing a tweaker over family concern....nuff said)

thats what im thinking about more is my mothers help cause her doctor told her at the rate the stress is getting to her she will either have a heart attack or nervous breakdown withing the next 2 years

Ooh yay open bedroom! No furry footballs and lots of peace and quiet XD

I don't see any downsides here :)

neither do i it just kinda hurts a little she chose him over her family and that bedroom will prolly go to katy

Ya since katy is the one with a job it makes sense on the room. But I can't say I know how you feel cause I don't. I just hope all goes well bro.

i think it will i kind of expected her to choose him over us

I'm just sad that after all the years of abuse and theft from him, she would choose him. My own mother had the perfect statement - "It's a sickness with her, when it comes to him". I don't know what her other son is going to say, but when she moves, she will NOT be leaving any of her stuff here. We need the space for our own stuff, and if our daughter decides to stay, even if for a little while, she will need the room for her stuff and her cats. We'll keep our friends posted, but I ask you all to please keep our family in your thoughts, and hope that I can manage to get thru this without any additional health issues! Vince, I could sure use your services again, lol! My shoulder is crying for you! hahaha

Im going to have to train Jebus how to do massage :P
Im sure you guys will be fine. Youve made it this far :)

Well, it's just painful. I'm going to be as careful as I can, but since she's planning on moving out, I don't know how much she's going to be doing around the house. I may be having to take over all of her chores early, which is not going to be easy, but I'll do it. And I look at it this way - I can have my friends over without having to ask permission when she's gone, which I will like - a lot!