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14 years ago
Warning, rant ahead.
So I've been getting sick along with symptoms of Carpel Tunnel showing up again, and yesterday my mom dropped off some medicine and told me to take one so I could rest up. I did so and went to sleep around 8:35pm, when my fiance's mom got home along with his sister.
Yes, we're too damn poor to move out yet, and I live with my fiance and his family because my family was going batshit with rules and being total pricks to my mom and I so we both left (my mom lives nearby, not the same house).
Well, I woke up around 5am, and with about 9+ hours of sleep, I was wide awake, and unwilling to go to sleep again.
My fiance's dad bursts into the room, screaming his alcoholic little head off about how my fiance's sister doesn't sleep in the room, blaming us for it. We were not making ANY noise, mind you, we were just passing the time on the web. I was checking my facebook, and checking to see if I had any new requests or things I would need to take care of once my wrist stops hurting again.
His sister sleeps out in the living room to stay near her phone as it charges so she can text all night, she has confirmed this with most of us here. My fiance has asked her to the point where she has gotten annoyed, yet his dad kept on interrupting him asking "rhetorically" "WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY" every time that my fiance spoke.
Its incredible, you'd think adults would know how to act mature, instead of pulling off some lil' 8 year old stunt of just trying to block out their "opponent's" words as they speak em'.
I was so shocked at this, that I just watched as they went back and forth for what felt like ten minutes.
Well, his mom stepped in, and instead of trying to reason with everyone, she pins the blame on us. I tell her I woke up just a while ago, so how could I have made noise? Guess what? She ignores me, and continues to go on and on about how much noise we're making and all this nonsense.
My fiance repeats what I said and she said its not her problem and that I need to fix that issue of waking up early. Yeah, what? Not that long ago, they were complaining we woke up too late. What? I'm sorry, are we supposed to adjust to some backwardsfuck retarded schedule? In the middle of all the screaming and downright stupid accusations, my fiance's sister groans loudly and stomps through his parents who were blocking the door and goes to sleep on her bed, as if to shut them up. Yeah, they don't until a while later, and we're both laying there pissed off while i take out my anger on some enemies in Borderlands.
I stayed online, playing stupid little facebook games to keep me entertained and texted my mom so she could help me calm down. His mom comes in a while later to wake up his sister for school and she starts complaining about the computer and stuff at a low enough tone so that we hear it, and I say that I woke up early. Again, she says "Yeah, you went to sleep like five minutes ago,right? Its not my problem, you need to fix that!" ah, it is her problem if they're making a big deal out of me waking up early and my fiance going to sleep in the morning if he has night shift.
She complains about me being on the computer, like I stated earlier. Last time I checked, part of my "job" so to speak, needs to involve me staying online and trying to get people to commission me, or at least try to start gaining the attention to get commissions started once my hand "betters up" (as I like to say).
She says we're all going to talk about this later, I don't know when,its Wednesday, I got a Bible Study stream to watch, and my fiance has work.
Anyway, a short while ago, my fiance got a couple of texts from his dad, and as it turns out, we now have a bed time, and if we don't cooperate, we get kicked out. The times we've stayed up, we make sure to not make any noise, and we go to sleep eventually before it gets too late. By the way, we're both in our early 20's, imagine that. Twenty-year-olds with bedtimes, how stupid.
All this because he can't control anyone in the house and feels the need to try to either manipulate or control anyone. Since his daughter and wife no longer listen to him, who's left? His son and his fiance.
I've texted my fiance's cousin, and she too thinks its ridiculous. Its him being all "I'm the big bad boss man of the house, listen to me and fear me and my rules and my alcohol!" and he's tried to get me to do that whole "women are meant to stay in the kitchen and clean after the men" bullshit, but I told my fiance, and he didn't take it too lightly.
You'd think ADULTS would know how to rationalize, but no, instead, they went and decided to not let us talk and not listen to what we had to say, like children. My fiance and I have to clean the whole house, clean everyone's dishes, clean our stuff, take care of (what his sister calls) "her" dog, clean after his sister because she's a spoiled little princess, and clean up after her friends.I also have to cook most days, as well as clean the dishes on said days too, all this before his parents come back home.
You'd think we'd get a bit of freedom or some time to rest, but no.
Its just....I'm amazed at how some adults handle little issues, its so hilarious and infuriating at the same time.
The older generations expect the younger ones to accept that we are wrong with whatever we say, just because they are older and have more experience, even though my fiance's dad comes back late at night (I'm talking about 3am-6am) from his partying and drinking. Yet we're the ones being outrageous.
Have they not heard of the whole "watch who you point at, because there are fingers that point back at you" thing? Jesus Christ.
We're honest and we get in trouble, we lie and we don't. What a great example.
I want to move out already, I'm getting sick and tired of dealing with three children, so is my fiance. We're practically taking care of the whole house ourselves and babysitting two big children and a bratty little princess.
[EDIT] I forgot to mention, my fiance's sister can get away with everything I just mentioned above, and we have to cater to her wishes. :l [/EDIT]
I'm done ranting, sorry for putting you through this, if you DID read it.
So I've been getting sick along with symptoms of Carpel Tunnel showing up again, and yesterday my mom dropped off some medicine and told me to take one so I could rest up. I did so and went to sleep around 8:35pm, when my fiance's mom got home along with his sister.
Yes, we're too damn poor to move out yet, and I live with my fiance and his family because my family was going batshit with rules and being total pricks to my mom and I so we both left (my mom lives nearby, not the same house).
Well, I woke up around 5am, and with about 9+ hours of sleep, I was wide awake, and unwilling to go to sleep again.
My fiance's dad bursts into the room, screaming his alcoholic little head off about how my fiance's sister doesn't sleep in the room, blaming us for it. We were not making ANY noise, mind you, we were just passing the time on the web. I was checking my facebook, and checking to see if I had any new requests or things I would need to take care of once my wrist stops hurting again.
His sister sleeps out in the living room to stay near her phone as it charges so she can text all night, she has confirmed this with most of us here. My fiance has asked her to the point where she has gotten annoyed, yet his dad kept on interrupting him asking "rhetorically" "WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY" every time that my fiance spoke.
Its incredible, you'd think adults would know how to act mature, instead of pulling off some lil' 8 year old stunt of just trying to block out their "opponent's" words as they speak em'.
I was so shocked at this, that I just watched as they went back and forth for what felt like ten minutes.
Well, his mom stepped in, and instead of trying to reason with everyone, she pins the blame on us. I tell her I woke up just a while ago, so how could I have made noise? Guess what? She ignores me, and continues to go on and on about how much noise we're making and all this nonsense.
My fiance repeats what I said and she said its not her problem and that I need to fix that issue of waking up early. Yeah, what? Not that long ago, they were complaining we woke up too late. What? I'm sorry, are we supposed to adjust to some backwardsfuck retarded schedule? In the middle of all the screaming and downright stupid accusations, my fiance's sister groans loudly and stomps through his parents who were blocking the door and goes to sleep on her bed, as if to shut them up. Yeah, they don't until a while later, and we're both laying there pissed off while i take out my anger on some enemies in Borderlands.
I stayed online, playing stupid little facebook games to keep me entertained and texted my mom so she could help me calm down. His mom comes in a while later to wake up his sister for school and she starts complaining about the computer and stuff at a low enough tone so that we hear it, and I say that I woke up early. Again, she says "Yeah, you went to sleep like five minutes ago,right? Its not my problem, you need to fix that!" ah, it is her problem if they're making a big deal out of me waking up early and my fiance going to sleep in the morning if he has night shift.
She complains about me being on the computer, like I stated earlier. Last time I checked, part of my "job" so to speak, needs to involve me staying online and trying to get people to commission me, or at least try to start gaining the attention to get commissions started once my hand "betters up" (as I like to say).
She says we're all going to talk about this later, I don't know when,its Wednesday, I got a Bible Study stream to watch, and my fiance has work.
Anyway, a short while ago, my fiance got a couple of texts from his dad, and as it turns out, we now have a bed time, and if we don't cooperate, we get kicked out. The times we've stayed up, we make sure to not make any noise, and we go to sleep eventually before it gets too late. By the way, we're both in our early 20's, imagine that. Twenty-year-olds with bedtimes, how stupid.
All this because he can't control anyone in the house and feels the need to try to either manipulate or control anyone. Since his daughter and wife no longer listen to him, who's left? His son and his fiance.
I've texted my fiance's cousin, and she too thinks its ridiculous. Its him being all "I'm the big bad boss man of the house, listen to me and fear me and my rules and my alcohol!" and he's tried to get me to do that whole "women are meant to stay in the kitchen and clean after the men" bullshit, but I told my fiance, and he didn't take it too lightly.
You'd think ADULTS would know how to rationalize, but no, instead, they went and decided to not let us talk and not listen to what we had to say, like children. My fiance and I have to clean the whole house, clean everyone's dishes, clean our stuff, take care of (what his sister calls) "her" dog, clean after his sister because she's a spoiled little princess, and clean up after her friends.I also have to cook most days, as well as clean the dishes on said days too, all this before his parents come back home.
You'd think we'd get a bit of freedom or some time to rest, but no.
Its just....I'm amazed at how some adults handle little issues, its so hilarious and infuriating at the same time.
The older generations expect the younger ones to accept that we are wrong with whatever we say, just because they are older and have more experience, even though my fiance's dad comes back late at night (I'm talking about 3am-6am) from his partying and drinking. Yet we're the ones being outrageous.
Have they not heard of the whole "watch who you point at, because there are fingers that point back at you" thing? Jesus Christ.
We're honest and we get in trouble, we lie and we don't. What a great example.
I want to move out already, I'm getting sick and tired of dealing with three children, so is my fiance. We're practically taking care of the whole house ourselves and babysitting two big children and a bratty little princess.
[EDIT] I forgot to mention, my fiance's sister can get away with everything I just mentioned above, and we have to cater to her wishes. :l [/EDIT]
I'm done ranting, sorry for putting you through this, if you DID read it.
You guys need to get the fuck out. ASAP. :|
And today, I was washing dishes, he walked in and went "Hmph!"
To me it kind of sounded like a "hmph" saying "That's right."
I wish my mom and dad would consider renting the spare room to people. I'd totally hook you guys up. >: