I wonder sometimes about friendship - I feel it gets used to loosely sometimes, when people really aren't your friends. Friends to me are the folks that you can call / text at four in the morning when you're upset and you need someone to hit you upside the head and say calm down! Friends are the ones that will always come back to you, even if you've had fights, because your soul resonates in a way that just means you can't be apart. Friends are the ones that you can't wait to see and that you dream about seeing and being with. Not doing anything special or strange, just being with them.


It bothers me when people decide they no longer want to be friends with you and they just.....stop responding. To anything / everything. It's childish and silly and it bothers the hell out of me. I'm fine with you deciding I'm no longer with your time or your energy, but why not say it? Be an adult, and just let it go. Tell me. It's okay, I'll deal with it. I know some months ago I put up a similar journal to this one and it was for entirely different people, but it's just something that I've been mulling over lately. I dunno.