I am not anyone but Malroth. Don't treat me as if I were...
17 years ago
I am a different breed. I do not feel the pull of hatred or annoyance as others do. I really am easy-going and nice to everyone. The only thing that gets to me is when someone has a problem with me soley due to whom else I associate with. That is a very limited and disrespectful way to be. I do not judge people by past deeds, or who they know, but rather their interaction with me personally.
Some may question my loyalty to my own friends when I do not disassociate with those who have hurt them, but I am the type of person to judge for myself. I really wish others would show me the same respect, rather than jump to conclusions.
(For example... I like Fur: A. Fur: B dislikes Fur: A because of something in their past. Fur: B finds out I am friends with Fur: A and ends our friendship based on that. What I am saying is that I am not Fur: A, I am Fur: C. Judge me for me, and not for who I know...)
Anyone who knows me will tell you how easy I am to get along with. I even get along with people who are less than nice to me. It is unfair to judge me for the merits of others.
I hope this journal does not fade away in vein. It really hurts me to make enemies from things that are no fault of my own. One of the rare but possible ways to make me lose a friendship with you is by requiring me to make the choice between associating with you or associating with another friend of mine. In my little view, no one has the right to have anyone make that choice.
Thank you for your time...
Some may question my loyalty to my own friends when I do not disassociate with those who have hurt them, but I am the type of person to judge for myself. I really wish others would show me the same respect, rather than jump to conclusions.
(For example... I like Fur: A. Fur: B dislikes Fur: A because of something in their past. Fur: B finds out I am friends with Fur: A and ends our friendship based on that. What I am saying is that I am not Fur: A, I am Fur: C. Judge me for me, and not for who I know...)
Anyone who knows me will tell you how easy I am to get along with. I even get along with people who are less than nice to me. It is unfair to judge me for the merits of others.
I hope this journal does not fade away in vein. It really hurts me to make enemies from things that are no fault of my own. One of the rare but possible ways to make me lose a friendship with you is by requiring me to make the choice between associating with you or associating with another friend of mine. In my little view, no one has the right to have anyone make that choice.
Thank you for your time...
-Z
I believe strongly that I don't judge you if you do not judge me but I would base a decision on your actions, morality, and banter along with your mind, soul and heart. If for whatever reason that you may have to hate another, I think it would have to be to the point that it was because of a huge wrong that can't be solved by words or actions.
I am your friend Mally, and to be honest I hope I didn't "Judge" you at all, in fact I think our friendships were based on a lil thing called open-mindness. I Care about you and I just wish that the drama would stop but I guess it will take some people to really get off there pedestal and really think about what they are doing....If a friend does that to you, they shouldn't be your friend to begin with and didn't deserve your time. But at the same time, if the ask for forgiveness and learn from it, who am I say not to forgive?
Less drama for all, would be a nice statement and would make more people smile then frown....<Noses into and rubs your back softly.>