I've always wondered why improving myself was so daunting, but I think I get it now. You have heard the old trope "be yourself", but you don't really understand it untill you can face your problems without them becoming overwhelming. You see, when you do it only for you then there is no pressure, its just breathing again. When you face your problems just remember that your doing it only for yourself. Encouragement is nice, but not needed.. at least during the transition.

In the end its about the company you keep and attract, I'm not going to pretend that love isn't important. Growth is constant, and when it comes to that poeple better help, stand back, or fuck off. Im just glad I have good friends, I don't need to improve for them. I WANT to, however.

I've come so far from a scared Texas fur in a strange land, I see no reason to stop now. And if you see me at a furmeet feel free to say Hi, just know I suck at small talk.