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Does Being Yelled At Make You Stronger? RANTRANTRANT
14 years ago
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Warning, this post may contain boring information, swear words, and dumb opinions. If that is the case I should be able to KO Michael Bisping in one try.
My dad had this bug up the ass thing where screaming is the only answer. I get the whole schpeal about how he goes to work when he is sick yadda yadda. First when I got home I worked on furthering the training on the horse that he is going to ruin. I'm in for an hour and my brother tells me to call him so I do. He bitches on and on and yells at me whenever I say "okay" or "alright" and wastes 15 minutes telling me to do the dishes. (Doesn't leave out how lazy and worthless I am.. that just wouldn't be proper.) I don't feel like fucking dealing with them so I do the dishes and go and "clean my room".
It is like 6:30 but I decided I would go to bed anyway. I have been sick and coughing my head off, my nose is like a waterfall of mucus and every time I am warm I feel like needles are stabbing me in the sides and I have to itch them off. (The needles thing is normal, though.) Then he decides to wake me up and yell at me to get sleep and go to school...
Pointless as hell, imo.
But after twenty minutes of that and constantly yelling at me to "not play this game" because I was weezing and coughing he finally let me go upstairs. (I managed to slip about between ranting.) Even when I ventured into the kitchen where my mum and brother were he tried to lecture me past them. I just took something to put me to sleep.
It is so stupid when people assume that I am just being lazy. It is not like there is anything wrong after all I have loving parents who support me and a plethora of friends waiting at my locker to exchange stories of how fabulous our lives are.
ARASHGWIOWIJRGHAEIJHAI
Words escape me. I am very quicky being driven insane by people who think they are good parents. Why do people so awful decide to have children? You have back problems and anger issues? Toss a couple kids into the world! It seems to be the new thing.
I hate being around such dumbasses. My whole family is just a group of blind rats with burnt noses. They really can't tell when something is wrong. But it is not like anyone else can tell, either. My mom just gives me this "you are smart so there is no reason for bad grades". I suck at math. Even if I give it my all I still fail, but of course if I can talk my way around a horse I must know what y - y1 = m (x - x1) means.
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Someone please tell me how to feel because I don't even fucking know.
My dad had this bug up the ass thing where screaming is the only answer. I get the whole schpeal about how he goes to work when he is sick yadda yadda. First when I got home I worked on furthering the training on the horse that he is going to ruin. I'm in for an hour and my brother tells me to call him so I do. He bitches on and on and yells at me whenever I say "okay" or "alright" and wastes 15 minutes telling me to do the dishes. (Doesn't leave out how lazy and worthless I am.. that just wouldn't be proper.) I don't feel like fucking dealing with them so I do the dishes and go and "clean my room".
It is like 6:30 but I decided I would go to bed anyway. I have been sick and coughing my head off, my nose is like a waterfall of mucus and every time I am warm I feel like needles are stabbing me in the sides and I have to itch them off. (The needles thing is normal, though.) Then he decides to wake me up and yell at me to get sleep and go to school...
Pointless as hell, imo.
But after twenty minutes of that and constantly yelling at me to "not play this game" because I was weezing and coughing he finally let me go upstairs. (I managed to slip about between ranting.) Even when I ventured into the kitchen where my mum and brother were he tried to lecture me past them. I just took something to put me to sleep.
It is so stupid when people assume that I am just being lazy. It is not like there is anything wrong after all I have loving parents who support me and a plethora of friends waiting at my locker to exchange stories of how fabulous our lives are.
ARASHGWIOWIJRGHAEIJHAI
Words escape me. I am very quicky being driven insane by people who think they are good parents. Why do people so awful decide to have children? You have back problems and anger issues? Toss a couple kids into the world! It seems to be the new thing.
I hate being around such dumbasses. My whole family is just a group of blind rats with burnt noses. They really can't tell when something is wrong. But it is not like anyone else can tell, either. My mom just gives me this "you are smart so there is no reason for bad grades". I suck at math. Even if I give it my all I still fail, but of course if I can talk my way around a horse I must know what y - y1 = m (x - x1) means.
.
.
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Someone please tell me how to feel because I don't even fucking know.
All in all, my parents are great, but my father and I are way too similar in the bad traits of being stubborn as hell, and picking a fight or an argument because we can, which ends up involving us arguing every day. So, there's that too.
As for school, I know EXACTLY how you feel, I'm great at every subject but maths, no matter how hard I try, I just can't grasp it, so I fail. But apparently that's because I never studied according to my parents, maths is truly not needed beyond the basics especially if you know what you're doing when it comes to getting a job you want/love, which I'm guessing is horses for you?
How to feel is tough, myself I'm just generally angry regardless of whether or not I start the fight, it's frustrating, annoying and enraging as fuck, but generally I just disappear, and listen to music, read or game, I just do something to get out of my head and relax, it's really the only advice I can offer, you can always talk to someone too, and if you wanna go that option, I'm happy to listen, it really does help.
Just try to relax if you can, no matter how you're feeling, or do your very best to just get out.
-Vollie.
I do sort of shut it out by videogames and what not, but I haven't played any games for a while so I am deprived. I will definately try relaxing more. My father gets this sort of "I had a bad day so I'm going to take it out on everyone". Thanks for this, it really did help. All I get from other people is a "deal with it; you'll be fine" and a pat on the back.
Do your best to relax no matter what, it always helps. Also, I love dogs, I've worked with them for fourteen years and maths really isn't needed, it's when you're getting into the biology side like I am that it starts to have some role.