I hate making hard decisions...
14 years ago
General
Tonight I got asked a question.. something i never thought would be asked of me. I was asked if I would be a sperm donor for my best friends sister.
Now the back story is that ive known my best friend for 5 + years now. Met in high school all that jazz. I met her family and have known her family for the same amount of time. Ive fought, supported, helped and been helped by them for these past 5 years.
Recently my friends sister started talking about having a child, now she is gay and wants to have an A.I.
Ive heard her talking over the possibilities but when she asked me tonight i had no idea what to say >..<
I'd be honored honestly.. but for those who know me.. i dont want kids, i never have and never will.
So for me its a battle between strong friendship, and personal beliefs. I am not really asking for opinions though if you have them please let me know. Im just undecided on what to do @.@
If i were to accept it'd be the whole, hear no, speak no, see no scenario. Where i'd not want anything to do with it and have no legal obligations towards it. I mean thats if i say yes...
If i say no i feel that i am letting her down. She knows me, knows what im like, my personality, my good and bad. so she knows what the child might be like. Plus i know her inside out as well so it would be hard to let her get a random donor that might be a complete failure or something... (cant think of wording right now).
I hate making hard decisions...
Now the back story is that ive known my best friend for 5 + years now. Met in high school all that jazz. I met her family and have known her family for the same amount of time. Ive fought, supported, helped and been helped by them for these past 5 years.
Recently my friends sister started talking about having a child, now she is gay and wants to have an A.I.
Ive heard her talking over the possibilities but when she asked me tonight i had no idea what to say >..<
I'd be honored honestly.. but for those who know me.. i dont want kids, i never have and never will.
So for me its a battle between strong friendship, and personal beliefs. I am not really asking for opinions though if you have them please let me know. Im just undecided on what to do @.@
If i were to accept it'd be the whole, hear no, speak no, see no scenario. Where i'd not want anything to do with it and have no legal obligations towards it. I mean thats if i say yes...
If i say no i feel that i am letting her down. She knows me, knows what im like, my personality, my good and bad. so she knows what the child might be like. Plus i know her inside out as well so it would be hard to let her get a random donor that might be a complete failure or something... (cant think of wording right now).
I hate making hard decisions...
DaiseeTheBunny
~bashthedragon
An A.I?
Zami
~callum
OP
Artificial insemination
DaiseeTheBunny
~bashthedragon
Ew, why does she want that?
Zami
~callum
OP
shes gay, she doesnt want to have sex witha man. so she gets a donor sperm and its inserted.
Zerrick_The_Weagle
~zerricktheweagle
Hmmmmm....I'd say that a true friend would do anything....but donating baby batter? A little extreme
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