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Date from hell and mega pist off

14 years ago General

MEN ARE ASSHOLES, I had been talking and webcam chatted with him a bit. Tonight i went on a date with him, I got there and no one came for a hour. Just before i was going to leave this 50 odd year old man showed up and sead he was here for a date with me. I was so pist off beyond pist and then to make it worse he apparintly allrdy orderd dinner and didnt have money to pay for it and he orderd like two plates. Men are assholes i was trolled and now im a compleet angre sad pist off person

35 Comments

Vasmeth ~vasmeth

Hungry Horse

14 years ago

not everyone is like that. the internet is the internet and you have to have your wits about you. I bet there are loads of sweet guys out there who'd love to meet you, you just have to keep looking.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

yeh the serch contues

tiberius ~tiberius

Anthro Artist

14 years ago

Whoa. That's pretty harsh dude. I hope things work out next time. *hugs* Yes, I agree men are assholes. Don't get too down in the dumps though, there are plenty that aren't. ^_^

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

yeh theres plently of fish in the sea but i lost my fishing rod XD

Maio_Maio ~maiomaio

Anthro Artist

14 years ago

hmm i think i would have left, stuff him he can pay for the food and if he cant well it doesnt matter as you will be gone. i hope you find someone though.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

thanks maio

Wylde ~wylde

Traditional Artist

14 years ago

O.O wow, you are way nicer then I would have been. I would of left his sorry ass to the establishment, and let THEM work something out with this liar who singled you out.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

im to nice some times

Homura ~fusionh0ss

Grumpy Grandpaw

14 years ago

Damn sorry to hear man. I have been stood up before, but most of the time they are rather cool. his hopefully is jut a one off. There are plenty of decent people out there :)

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

fingers corssed*

Homura ~fusionh0ss

Grumpy Grandpaw

14 years ago

^,-,^ you will see. There are some out there

Howlnwolf ~howlnwolf

14 years ago

*hugs you* I'm so sorry about that. I would have knocked out his teeth if he did that to me. What an a$& to order food and not pay. I hope you find someone that treats you right!

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

thanks, but i dont think i would had done that because god only knows if they were his real teeth

Tara_Swift_Claw ~taraswiftclaw

Watcher

14 years ago

were you able to see them on web cam chat look the same as one that came to the place? or did guy on webcam just send one of his older friends type thing. and if they initiated the date then he by all common courtasy rules and unwritten rules type thing should be paying.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

i would say the guy on the cam got one of his older mates

Tara_Swift_Claw ~taraswiftclaw

Watcher

14 years ago

ok yea if he tricks like that on first date he aint worth it XD...

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Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

tanks mate

WarHorse573 ~warhorse573

Watcher

14 years ago

How did he order dinner already if he was an hour late? And how could he fake his age if you saw him on webcam?

Dineegla ∞dineegla

Classical Artist

14 years ago

Good questions. VERY good questions.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

He went to the counter when i was sitting down and orderd and the asshole used a older frend of his to appare as him at the restrunt i would guess thats the only way the 25 year old truned into a 50 year old unless it was some cindarella thing

Dineegla ∞dineegla

Classical Artist

14 years ago

You should have left. THAT is unacceptable!

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

i did leave but i payed any way

WarHorse573 ~warhorse573

Watcher

14 years ago

I WANT THE TRUTH!!!

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

you got it

Tanek ~tanek

Watcher

14 years ago

Wow dude, I've heard of people faking webcam stuff before, but this is above and beyond. I'd have left just like everyone else said, but not till after telling the guy off, that's just ridiculous.
And I too say that men AND women are assholes, but there are good ones out there. Don't let this ruin it all for you.

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

i wont let it stop me but i dont think i will try dateing websties agen

Tanek ~tanek

Watcher

14 years ago

Yeah I never trust those sites. Too easy for stuff like this to happen.

WarHorse573 ~warhorse573

Watcher

14 years ago

So the whole thing was to screw you out of a dinner? How much was it?

Nightintodream ~nightintodream

Art Whore

14 years ago

30 bucks give or take

ro_fox ~rofox

Anthro Artist

14 years ago

Yeah, at that point you walk out. he made the order, he can pay for it.

That's a clear example of one of the worse-case scenarios of online dating. Really sorry to hear that happened to you, but not every guy is that bad! You'll find someone.

Jaleo ~jaleo

Just a Has Been Horse Artist

14 years ago

I think already told you what I think on facebook, but again, I'm really sorry... you know what to do next time bud.

Bucky Seifert ~buccura

Watcher

14 years ago

o___o Seriously? Holy hell, this is fmylife.com material right here. Sorry you had to actually experience it D:

Jubell ~jubell

Traitor to the Cupcake Wars

14 years ago

That's...really horrifying O.O

I'm sorry it turned out so badly =(

*Hugs*

Equoris ~equoris

Musician

14 years ago

I feel your pain. Being lied to, intentionally or otherwise is very very bad...Especially when you are told "its all been a lie" after months...And are left heartbroken.

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