Naw, it's not stupid to be upset, though it is annoying, the reverse is also pretty shit.

The reverse meaning what? I have an idea but I wanna be certain.

Well those who don't want to get to know you or whatever due to blackness, because you don't prescribe to the image of what they expect in the bear community based purely on appearance. It's bullshit =P, it's not like you'd want to know someone that closed minded after that, and sexual attraction is a big part of it, but still.

Yeah, I've encountered that as well. It's shit from either end :/

Yea, it really is, on the opposite end of the spectrum some guy tried talking "ghetto" to get to know me, that one stung.

Now I can imagine the day I use the pull down menu here on FA and see Wolfgang listed there. :P

That'd be all kinds of awesome <3 But for entirely different reasons!

I'm black on my own two feet.

Well yeah, people can find things attractive, even when said attraction stems from something the person has little/no control over. Just how it rolls I guess. I try not to let it bother me, because eeeevery so often I still meet a racist prick, so I'm like, "It evens out!"

Heh, reading all your comments are great I have to say. I think you and I think a LOT a like >_>

Well c'yeah! We're black dudes on the internet! :D

Well, yeah, I have a thing for black guys! I also have a thing for white guys, American Indian guys, Chinese guys, Korean gays, Asian guys in general, Africans from Africa, Mexicans, Brazilians, Chileans, Germans, British dudes, Scottish dudes, redheads, blondes, brunettes, twinks, jocks, gym bunnies, bodybuilders, muscleguts, musclechubs, daddy bears, smooth guys, hairy guys, small doms, big doms, Indians, Middle Eastern guys, Puerto Ricans, Hispanics and Latinos in general, Canadians...

I know, I'm really picky, but it tends to work out overall. :3

You're such a husky

Heeeey! D: Well, yeah, I guess. Now I just need a roomful of such lions, tigers, bears and wolves, stallions, dragons, and so on. :3~

Well, Im into ya, cause you're a funny and awesome dude!
o3o im not sure what saying that will do, But I hope you feel liked for something besides the colour of your skin ( even if it is really cute~)

I appreciate the comment :3

I like being fawned over (to a degree) but I'd want to imagine it's because I'm interesting or fun to be around. Physical attraction is a plus, but I don't want it to be everything. I know waaaaaaaaaay too many guys who are hot, but complete assholes!

Popular stereotype is that black men have big dicks and furries love big dicks.

True and true.

slap someone next time that happens. You are an amazing person and should be liked and loved for ALL of you, not just one accidental thing about you. People are so weird.

I think "People are dumb" is what you were going for ;)

And thank's hun, that's super sweet of ya <3

its cause i luv ya lol

I'm weird... I'm inbetween the whole white and the "other" when it comes to my favouring Black guys... It is because you're not white. But it's also because you're not white, in a socio-political stand point... but that's heavily influenced by a majority of white people and my upbringing which I really am at odds with. And also, I just found it more appealing, people with darker skin tones, coloureds (mixed race), darker indians, blacks... as friends and as people of attraction....