Be who you want to be.

Am I the brave soldier-type with integrity?
Perhaps the laid back stoner-type party guy with friends?
Maybe the sort that goes through a new casual girlfriend every year?
The intellectual career-minded person that carefully builds a secure world around himself?

I like all of these in different ways. I dislike all of them in different ways.
I want to be all of them, I've never been any of them.

Tornado's right buddy, it's up to YOU who you wanna be. The way I did it, I took the creature I love the most, the bengal tiger, and made it into an entity that became such a part of me, that I feel a spiritual bond with him. Believe me, when you find that right fursona, you'll know, I know this from experience, if you need to talk, hit me up.

I'mma dragon.

That's not so much the question.

I'm not even sure what the question is, entirely.

You'll know when it comes to you buddy, but let that question come to you on its own, don't force it along. Before long, you'll get an idea, that will be the greatest idea you ever thought of. :)

It came. It went.
Hopefully something else comes along.

It will buddy, I know it will. ;)

You want one specific thing that defines you. That doesn't work for most people though, be all those things!

I need more f'real friends and fewer intangible friends. That's what would do it, I'm suspecting.

It does help, sometimes online friends can be real too. Sounds like you want a mate more than a friend.

Well, there's that too, but that's seperate. I'm certainly not the person that bitches and moans about not having a mate. It seems like it would be unpleasant, overall, yet I'm still curious about it.

This summer, I'm going to work on meeting some real friends. :) that's been the plan, anyway.

Life is a puzzle with no real solution.

You just fit in pieces over and over, trying to complete a infinitely expanding picture.

Don't try so hard to have an exact fit all the time.

If it doesn't fit, I'm doing something wrong.

If it doesn't fit, it just goes somewhere else in the puzzle. An area you haven't started yet. That's it. :]

http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/3179959/

I'd visit you if I could

Being yourself is a bore. Find someone throwing an awesome party, kick him out, tell him "I'm taking over your life now, you go back to my place and be bored and lonely now."