Every family is different. I know one guy who opened up but his parents already knew practically and they were completely fine with it. It just depends, like for my family, i know things will go down hill if i open up cuz i've actually heard them say that they don't approve.

*hugs* Just hang in there ok.

*hugs sissypaw* everythings going to b ok

There is no one right answer, but I can see in your case that it was not a good decision for you - at least in the short run.

Whatever happens, know that you took a positive risk in your own behalf, and there is nothing more empowering on this planet than that. Being who we are, and standing in our power, is ultimately the only thing we have. Your parents can't handle it right now. That means that there will be changes on the horizon. Perhaps for you, perhaps for them. Maybe you will move out, maybe it will just take time. No one can say with cetainty.

Remember though, through it all, why you came out in the first place. Your decision was likely made out of love for yourself, and for not wanting to treat yourself or your life as if it were a negative, to be ashamed of and hidden. You took a very positive step in your life, by declaring that you matter. I know it may be hard, but you should take pride and strength in that. It is, ultimately, a good thing.

We cannot control the reactions of emotions of others. We can only control our reactions and deal with our emotions. Stay positive - remember who you are, and that you are OK, no matter what others say. And if, ultimately, your family cannot continue with you on your life path, thank them for everything they did for you - including making you a strong enough person to come to grips with yourself and present your real face to the world. They may not want to admit it, but they had a hand in creating this situation.

I cannot begin to predict what you have set in motion. I can only remind you that it is borne of a positive, powerful intention. And as such, it will work out for the best, as living your life in the closet is never the answer.

Good luck.


-TGU.

i agree dude