DISCUSSION: Your importance of having a physical 'bond'
13 years ago
Hello all!
here. Figured I'd start up another discussion since it's been a few weeks.
So, what I mean by the title is, how important is it for you to have some kind of physical reminder of being leashed or some kind of physical bond to your master? Is it essential that you have your collar? Do you only wear it on occasion? Or does a collar mean nothing to you? What are your masters views, if applicable? Discuss~
here. Figured I'd start up another discussion since it's been a few weeks. So, what I mean by the title is, how important is it for you to have some kind of physical reminder of being leashed or some kind of physical bond to your master? Is it essential that you have your collar? Do you only wear it on occasion? Or does a collar mean nothing to you? What are your masters views, if applicable? Discuss~
FA+

but
i like the idea of having a collar. ^^
Makes you feel where you stand between master and pet.
i think it's a comfy feeling ^^
Knowing where you belong.
Collars are extremely important to me, and something I cannot have put on me just on a whim. It takes my "sub-state" of being to a whole nother level. However I do not have to always have it on, though I always like to have some sort of reminder that connects me to My Master phsyically.
He has a collar, but unfortunately it has pretty sizable spikes, which most places around us will confiscate because it's a "weapon." (ugh) He also works at a junkyard and is in the military, so collars could get in the way of him doing work, plus having a collar that shows might be considered unprofessional. As such, we've agreed that we'll find something for him when we're together.
As for me, I'd like to have a constant reminder and I have a couple (one necklace I always wear, one ring), but nothing that's really a 'collar.' Since I work at JoAnn fabrics and my boss is pretty anal about details, if I can find a collar that's subtle enough and won't raise questions, then I'll wear that.
As far as Hyacinth's comment about a collar as a weapon, I've had that happen actually. My collar ( http://www.furaffinity.net/view/5369229/) has a few spikes as you can see. I walked into the Wal-Mart near my home in Atlanta and the greeter called Security to follow me. They informed me that my collar could be used as a weapon and so, I either had to take it to my car, leave, or hand it to them until I left. I decided to toss it in my car, continue shopping and go about my day. Most places, however, have either not cared or even had employees that thought it was awesome and asked for the story. A guy at the Family Dollar next to where I used to live in Savannah started wearing one after I explained it to him.
::Shrugs:: I guess I got a little off-topic.
Cursed downed internet, it made me post 17 days later than the journals release.
I want to say I really love to wear my collar, especially for my Master if he wishes.
I did wear it also some years in school, locked with they key at home but now at work thats not possible.