The current male lacks effort... Like he'll piss me off and just go "okay" as if he hasn't pissed me off at all.

He BARELY tries anymore and it's depressing. Even if a woman hangs up on you, you call at LEAST once. Even if she doesnt pick up she likes to see the EFFORT!!!

His lack of effort makes me feel like no fucks are given and if that's the case I dont have to give any.

I guess my problem this time is that I was trying to explain to him why I'm irritated and instead of listening he just tells me about his day. I couldn't give half a fuck about your day when I'm trying to tell you why the fuck I'm outraged and how you can salvage the situation.

I guess it would be better if I just did what all the other women I'm related to choose to do. Hold in all the rage as long as I can untill I'm just an unhappy raging bitch who cant be stoped because months or years of rage has built up and I dont know how else to feel anymore, permanently scarred into being a psychopath!!!

So kitty might be single soon. I'm sick and tired of the lack of effort, lack of fucks given, his wreched lack of social skills, lack of pack loyalty, lack of social disiplen and the huge amout of fail no matter how much I do to attempt to tell him how to fix it.

World knows I'm picky when it comes to a mate but theres a such thing as too much. I'd love to stay with him but he need's to do some growing, maybe a psycho girlfriend will teach him something.