How people can judge others without knowing ANYTHING about their situations. yes there are many who piss and moan about their lives while not appreciating what they have but honestly maybe if you tried to look a little deeper and take the time to see if its more than just pissing and moaning but true pain and other serious life issues.

Telling someone to "grow up and get a job" when that isnt a n option for them without even knowing them and what their struggles and issues are is PURE HATEFUL and insensitive, as well as, Honestrly if you feel you can slam that hammer hard then you need to Check yourself before throwing out statements of thing s you know not a damn thing about.

we ALL have issues in our lives and the one "SAFE" place for us as a community needs to stop being a place of name calling and finger pointing.

the best quote I have heard was from Trina Braxton: "Keep it cute or keep it mute." We are a community of Misfits. Society looks at ALL of Us as freaks, degenrates, and pedos. Instead of self destructing as a community we NEED to stick together and support each other the best that we can.

We are fractured and its time to stop being angry at each other and breaking each other down, but, to begin fixing the cracks within ourselves... honestly it is the only way things will EVER change for all of us.

*steps off soap box*

Just my 2cents take it or leave it

Vaelyn