It's one thing to hold something against someone. I can understand having misgivings towards other people for things they've done that you take personal offense with (that isn't something like rape or murder, I don't expect anyone to forgive anyone for that)

But it's quite another to hold it against them after 3 years. Especially when what you're holding against them wasn't something that emotionally or physically damaged you in any way.

And then to take that grudge and foster it by going around behind that person's back and spreading it around, when you have no idea whether the person has changed or not?

That's just unacceptable.

And don't worry, most of you reading this aren't who I'm referring to. The people who're responsible for the bout of drama this morning know who they are. And I'm very disappointed in both of you.

I've never had any grievances with either of you, but it's rather shameful that you'll go sneak around me like that. If you have an issue with me, at least have the decency to address me about it before getting someone to try and take care of your problem for you.