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Death and Furries a Reality
13 years ago
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Death and Furries a Reality
Text by:Zets
Yet again as i was browsing and looking at my Fa journals i ended up on a journal anouncing someone death.
This brought me to think again of a subject that is always near my mind.
Death
Strangely we never exept it in most cases and sometimes regrets over missed ocasion risses.
This is where i find the situation agravathing...We get training to know how to go to the moon yet in school we never learn to talk about it, how to cope whit someone death or even are own.
I sometime bealeve that if everyone would look at eatchother and acknoledge that all of are hearts are tiking time boms and that everytime that we meet it could be are last moments. Now i am hearing your replies. Well that surely would never happend to me. Tell that to the fur that just lots his mother when he was at work.
How does anyone of us know that we will live tomorow? Asumtions?
It may sound dark and sad espeacialy when you havent really taught about death but i think that if we would be more aware of it that we could proberbly live even beter life together and areself. I know that it makes the diference to me.
I just always love to look at someone just before breacking a conversation and go just to remember them in case i never seen him or her again. I did this whit a certain horse friend that sadly died 2 years ago and made my greif easier.
This concept is not for everyone. But giving it a taught could make you aware of certain things.
Here, back then and now but never forever.
Zets
Text by:Zets
Yet again as i was browsing and looking at my Fa journals i ended up on a journal anouncing someone death.
This brought me to think again of a subject that is always near my mind.
Death
Strangely we never exept it in most cases and sometimes regrets over missed ocasion risses.
This is where i find the situation agravathing...We get training to know how to go to the moon yet in school we never learn to talk about it, how to cope whit someone death or even are own.
I sometime bealeve that if everyone would look at eatchother and acknoledge that all of are hearts are tiking time boms and that everytime that we meet it could be are last moments. Now i am hearing your replies. Well that surely would never happend to me. Tell that to the fur that just lots his mother when he was at work.
How does anyone of us know that we will live tomorow? Asumtions?
It may sound dark and sad espeacialy when you havent really taught about death but i think that if we would be more aware of it that we could proberbly live even beter life together and areself. I know that it makes the diference to me.
I just always love to look at someone just before breacking a conversation and go just to remember them in case i never seen him or her again. I did this whit a certain horse friend that sadly died 2 years ago and made my greif easier.
This concept is not for everyone. But giving it a taught could make you aware of certain things.
Here, back then and now but never forever.
Zets
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The most important anybody can be taught about how to deal with death is that however they feel is best to deal with it is perfectly alright and acceptable. Statements about what a person should or shouldn't do when grieving a death (such as "boys and men aren't supposed to cry") are useless and do more harm than good. Everyone should feel comfortable to do what they need to do in order to feel ready to move on.
Then I realized death is part of life and I needed to start enjoying everyday of my life as it could be my last and not worry about the little things that happen to me everyday and looked at the big picture. So I turned over the hypochondriac and started to enjoy the little moments in my life and It made me feel allot better about myself.
I guess what I am saying in the end is I know we all die and there is no avoiding it and everyone deals with death in there own way and also has beliefs of what happens after death, may it be the heaven or reincarnation or whatever their faith beliefs are inside. I say we just need to enjoy life and be happy with what it gives us. Always look at the good in life we have and how we lead our lives as a person. Someone is not going to remeber you for how rich or famous you were in life when you die, what they will remeber is what kind of person you were and the good heart you had towards others in the life you lived.
I know I went a little on here but Death has been a subject I have had allot of time to think about over the years and I have been down that Depression hole because of the people that died around me and not dealing with it very well. As Zets said I wish I coudl have had someone to help me deal more with it in life then being alone and I finally did meet that Person in my Great wife who helped me deal with it and get me out of my Depression. I am very thanking for her in my life and having my family and Thats what counts in your life is having that someone to care about you and help you through those moments like dealing with the death of a loved one or someone close to your heart.