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13 years ago
Caution: Lots of drama bla bla after this point.
Usually I'm not the guy that writes such journals. Usually I'm the one that does his best to help others and keeps personal drama for himself. This time I can't but maybe I will delete this journal after a short while.
A few weeks back I planned to go to FCN with my (back then it was still my) BF.
2 days before I left to Vancouver he stopped talking to me. After a few days I asked him and he told me "Didn't he tell you?"
I was wondering because I had no idea. "We should brake up. It's better for you"
Of course I was like wtf? He breaks up with me because he thinks it's better for me and he asked somebody else to tell me.
Right now I have no idea what to to except breaking every connection to my ex I got and moving on. I was really shocked to find out that he acts like this.
Usually I'm not the guy that writes such journals. Usually I'm the one that does his best to help others and keeps personal drama for himself. This time I can't but maybe I will delete this journal after a short while.
A few weeks back I planned to go to FCN with my (back then it was still my) BF.
2 days before I left to Vancouver he stopped talking to me. After a few days I asked him and he told me "Didn't he tell you?"
I was wondering because I had no idea. "We should brake up. It's better for you"
Of course I was like wtf? He breaks up with me because he thinks it's better for me and he asked somebody else to tell me.
Right now I have no idea what to to except breaking every connection to my ex I got and moving on. I was really shocked to find out that he acts like this.
Sorry I couldn't help you with that, I don't think I know someone in this area.
Hope he one day sees what he's missing out on.
I do not know the whole story, nor do I want to, as I really do not want to choose sides between either of you. As far as I am concerned, both of you are great guys that (as aforementioned) I consider friends, whom of which, I want to get to know a lot more, especially when we live in different countries.
I hope that the best can come from this situation, for both of you. As a friend, I am there for both of you regardless, and I hope you are able to appreciate my decision to not choose sides, if anything.
I also hope that the best option does not come down to shutting off from each other, I know exes who have gone down this path, and not only is it a far-from-pretty sight, it is extremely awkward for those who are friends with both partners concerned, especially when all parties happen to bump into each other at a con. I am within my right to advise both of you against going down that path, but I cannot truly stop either of you from doing so.
Either way, I wish to be there for both of you. Now, I am at a loss for words. :(
I'm not much good at giving relationship advice, but I can sure try my best to offer ways to keep your mind off of it at the con. ^^
Know that you're always welcome in the Netherlands.
Remember the last day of AC
Does this mean we can have a rematch?
I am friends with you both and I do not pick sides, but I will be there for both of you should you feel the need or simply feel like talking.
Be safe!
*hugs*
*hugs*
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As a friend, know that I will always remain neutral and I'll always have your back.
Hope to catch you around some time man, it has been too long. Hang in there.
Sometimes in relation or friendship are huge expectations with one of the partners can't deliver and might feel lost. Then come to such moments like split up. But I regard honesty and face to face to tell.
Hold tight Tilli, *hugs* lest you know he is not the right for you before more harm is done.