Most guys are like that, but some guys just want someone to call their own and to feel loved. I understand this and it is hard to pick out what kinda guy they are, but that's the whole point of dating, is to see what you like in a guy, what to look out for, and to look for that special someone. Just gotta keep things slow and really get to know someone before you jump into a relationship with them

I guess so. Thanks :3 I understand not all guys are like this, I just seems to pick out the ones that are xD

well as I said, be more careful and get more aquainted with them before hand

Yep, I'll have to work on that :3

don't worry, you'll get the hang of it :)

I always found that long-term relationships, deeper connections and even relationships without sex are more my style. I dunno, maybe I'm just weird, but I'm one of those people who prefers something I call 'contact without contact'. That is to say... I like to be with people but able to keep my distance. It's hard to find people who are okay with that long-term.

What I'm trying to say is try not to lump everyone in the same category, babe. There's still some guys out there who are capable of loving without it being sexual, and who're okay with long-distance. The problem is that the majority of 'em seem to be gay... I'm very sorry things didn't work out for ya, but try not to give up hope, ya know..?

But what do I know? I was born female c_c and according to some people, I'll never be a 'real guy'.

Chin up, sweets. There's people here for ya and I'm sure they won't mind if you rant 'n rave a lil'.

I know not all guys are like this, but after you run into the same kind over and over again it gets a little frustrating :I

I like building solid foundations with relationships for awhile before I feel comfortable enough for physical contact, so I totally understand that.

So did you get a sex change? o__o

Yeah, thanks :#

I totally understand the frustration there. I experience it often on different subjects (ie, why is every friggen submissive I meet a push-over, pansy-ass crossdressing sissy D:<!?). But yeah.

I have not gotten a sex change yet, unfortunately, nor hormone therapy, and it's doubtful I'll ever be able to without financial assistance, but I very much consider myself a man. A rather queer sort of manly man who likes kittens n puppies and the smell of lavender, but still a man.

And you are quite welcome~

Awe, it isn't queer for a guy to like puppies and kittens, most do like them that I know :3

The only reason why it's guys I tend to associate with is because I only want relationships with men :3 So I'm sure women are the same way too occasionally as well, I just don't see it.

Haha lol! I always find it funny that women can get away with dressing like men but put a man in a dress and oh noes, watch out! xD

lD thats a shame alot of people seem to go through that but yeah not all dudes are like that >..> believe it or not even on the internet XD I sure as hell am proud to say I dont chase tail and alot of my friends are female because they are comfy and not pressured (and yes im straight XD), theres always bad apples in the bunch but tis a lesson we all have and had to learn, because on the flip side some females are only after one thing as well, its green and usually has someones face on it thats dead x) either way you'll be alright *has been there done that and isnt much older*

Yes I know not all guys are like that xD

Of course females are like that as well, never said they weren't :P

It's just very frustrating sometimes :(

Oh I agree with ya 100% on that one

Yup, I just happen to experience the men more simply because I only date men :P I'm sure there are men out there who had the same problem as me before but with a women.

Yup, I just happen to experience the men more simply because I only date men :P I'm sure there are men out there who had the same problem as me before but with a women.

Things will improve as you get older and wiser/more experienced with relationships. Sure there are always some for whom that is either an important part of the relationship or the whole relationship but most people will mature with time and come to want more than a physical connection. Communication can go a long way towards both sides understanding what they want from the relationship.

As for the past 6 weeks well maybe you should analyze all the good things you felt during that time and recognize that you can feel those again even if it's someone else. Though that doesn't mean go right out and get into another relationship- you need time to deal with the emotions of this last one to be able to get over it. It may take weeks or months or even longer but you will know when you're ready.

Yeah, my ex mate was younger then me and couldn't wrap his head around the fact there is more to a relationship then the physical aspect. I just want one where there is good communication involved.

Haha yes, no denying there were good parts to my last relationship, but it was very dramaish and up and down. I don't know how long it might take...only time can tell that, it's not like I can set a date on when I'll feel better to try out another relationship xD

Most guys at that age (and even into their 20's) aren't seriously into a relationship. Between all the new freedoms and the hormones at that age, they may be interested in dating but they don't have enough experience to know the difference well between lust, love, and crushes.

Who knows years from now you two might have a second chance though even if not hopefully you can atleast be able to redevelop a friendship of some kind over time.

Yeah I should have known that xD

Nope, I never re date. Have problems once, going to have them again. Maybe friendship, I'm not really feeling it right now :<

Not all guys are like that hon.. so don't worry. They are just very hard to find. But even most women tend to be like that in some way or another too, it's just people in general really. For me it was really hard because I'm not interested in that sort of thing and just want a mental connection with someone. And most people seem to be incapable of not having some sort of physical contact... Isn't love about more than that? I would like to think so.

Yes, I know all people do it, I just experience men more since I'm straight. I don't want the physical as so much as emotional and mental. Not that I don't mind physical, but I'm really adamant on having a nice, solid foundation to build that off of :3

I know -.- Love is physical a little, but there is so much more to it then that. You don't have to look at person or animal to know you love them, or else I wouldn't love my grandma, because I have never seen her before in my life since she is dead. I love my grandma, whether I see her or not. Love doesn't know distance, only your head does.