It's amazing how people would go through your personal items. Not only go through your personal items but assuming what each item is used for. Like my brother this weekend, stayed over for a few nights but while I was gone, he went through my drawers and threw away a few things, i.e. condoms and lube. and something else that goes with a toy my mate owns, but its not apparent to what it is used for. If you are so damned curious just ask. in fact, you wouldn't even need to ask if you weren't snooping around someone else's private life in the first place. No one has any right to do that.