hmmmm...

I'm single.. but I don't date, so not much help to you, lol!

best of luck, hope you find some ladies! :D

Oh come on now, why not? :p I have to know now. lol

Kind of a complex molecule of reasoning:

First, I got really tired of the human-oriented drama. Namely, men lying about their avilability and me getting targeted and blamed by angry and jealous girlfriends and wives.

Second, over time, I've developed an irritating allergy to both latex and sperm. This makes intimacy not impossible but difficult, but makes conception and family planing extremely difficult.

Thirdly, when attempting to date, most of the dating scene is people either looking for life-mates/wives OR people looking for sex hookups. The former get discouraged by my physiologic difficulties. The latter are pretty much off limits to me due to said physiology. :/

Thank you for being another person that does their best to avoid human-based drama by not making yourself a target for it.

You have to admit though, you must be hot stuff to certain guys if they are desperate enough to ditch what is supposedly their "Soulmate/GF" for you. As for those dimwit females that are quick to blame you, they should consider their place in the relationship and have more sense in believing that their male was the culprit that more than likely made the move without even giving the clientele that they were already spoken for. You were nothing more than a victim of circumstance, but they sound like they were quick to do it because they felt and probably believed themselves to be less than attractive in comparison.

I don't really care for dating myself. Makes things sound more complicated than it should be. I'd rather just stick with the idea of being friends that can go out and do stuff together for fun.

Oddly, I'm not that hot! XD

I don't get it, really. It seems to happen a lot in Casper, though, because I ALWAYS see people fighting about cheating. I went out on a few dates with a guy I met at a charity event (not a bar even!) and hit it off with so after a couple of months, we started fooling around and I was really enjoying it. And I'm not stupid, I checked for a ring, checked for a tan line, asked him if he was single, he said yes...


And then his WIFE keyed my car. :/


That was the last straw, I threw up my hands and said, "Fuck it, I'm done."

Only in the eyes of the beholder can it be seen. They must see something in you that makes you hot. It could be possible that you have a body that looks like it would be loads of fun in the sheets. I guess you can sy that I'm an optimist in the idea that everyone has some form of being hot, even if they don't see it.

A Charity has also become a cliche place to find people. (Coming to America proved that) Honestly and no disrespect in any sense of the word, you'd been better off dating a Furry or a girl if you were to consider doing such again.

I'd rather just enjoy being with a friend as I've always done. If intimacy were to even be a possibility, I'd rather it be just for fun than something binding, and no mouth-to-mouth.

As for the "WIFE" that keyed your car, you should have totaled hers in retaliation.

It's really stupid that when it comes to cheating done by a male it always seems to make the female think it's the other female's fault and quick to get their claws out, literally. It's like the idea of females being the more sensible goes out the window along with sentience. No offense meant to you or all women, just the ones that don't think with their heads.

Lol, I don't see it.. maybe I smell like bacon and rainbows?

It was a charity art auction for an organization that does occupational therapy for the developmentally disabled. Kind of a classier crowd; I wasn't expecting to meet a guy. It just happened. >_<

Me totaling her car wouldn't have made a difference, but would have brought me down to her level. I didn't STEAL her man, he wandered away on his own. You don't blame a horse for eating out of your garden if you don't have any fence around it. :/

XD Women like that are dumb!

Just remember that you don't always have to have something be visual in order to be found attractive. IF you tasted like Bacon, you'd be a feast.

Doesn't matter what the charity is for. If a person knows they can come across someone that may fulfill their carnal desire in any location, they will not give themselves a limit to obtain that in which they seek.

Glad you're not a dumb, empty-headed female.

I'm rather proud of the fact that the inside of my head contains functional cerebral tissue.

And you have every right to be. I find intelligence to be quite admirable and attractive. Plus it means that you would be a person that could hold various conversations and not the same borish stuff all the time.

LoL, I do have my favorite topics that I tend to fall back on (like mythology, art, and comparative religion) but I try to maintain a basic knowledge of most potential topics so I don't sound like an idiot. .. and when I don't know, I say, "No idea what you just said to me, sir." XD

I respect honesty in conversation as much as I do variety, and sense I do like hearing of things I'm not familiar with you would definitely enjoy conversations with me. And don't worry too much about certain potential topics, since I will admit that if it would be more on current events, fashions and the like that I really would be oblivious. It would be coincidence if I happen to know something, or that it just happens to be something I'm familiar with.

I really do believe that honesty is the BEST policy. (There is however, this thing called TACT that means you shouldn't just blurt out hurtful things, even if they are true.)

I'm not really into fashion.. my biggest indulgence is makeup and nail polish, both for cosmetic and costume purposes, but I do what I think looks good, not what anyone else thinks is fashionable, so the only attention I pay to the world of "fashion" is when they release new colors & formulas of makeup. ^^;

I pay half-attention to current news. . enough to know that something has happened and to know when something happens I need to pay attention to (like SOPA).

Very understandable, though there are times in which a person may say something tactless and not realize it.

But you have to admit, most current events are usually negative than positive.

^^ Honest mistakes are forgivable.


I mostly pay attention to science & technology news.. and video game releases. XD

*Puts my arm around your shoulder* Then lets have a meet-up at a Cafe or Starbucks and chat, because you're definitely on my wave-length for conversation. Oh, and bring your Portable if you have one.

Portable? As in.. DS, PSP, etc?

:P I don't bring game systems or laptops when I'm planning to hang out with people. I think it's rude.

Only if later play time wasn't considered in the cards. But I was mostly thinking about their usage outside of gaming, namely music and photos and stuff. You know, use to show the other things that may come up in conversation that if you don't look at it then, you might forget later. Hate when those moments happen.

Lol, yea, I can see how that can add funtimes. :)

I'm Making a gift for you. I have a sketch done. I think you will like it ;)

You will find someone when you least expect it. Sad that in the "furry" scene we are old, but come now, I am just as old as you ^_^

I know, but I keep searching. Even though you found someone, I still want to do this. *kisses your paw* :) Thanks for your encouraging words.

*blushes and hides* awww thank you *smiles and glomp hugs* I miss talking to you!!!

Same here, work has had me going hard core. x3 *hugs and glomps back without your mate seeing* lol x3

I will pop on messenger, you should chat with me. I am bored at work :>

Which messenger?

ummmm any of them works :)

On Yahoo, see ya there: chad_panther

you got it, I messaged you ^_^

*blinks* I see nothing yet. O.o Whats your username?

hmmm odd, I will log back on, and tattoochameleon for me

Single yes but this foxy lady rolls alone. It's how I do yo XD

I know about you, but I am sure you know some other single ladies who are looking, right? ;D

I do but not loads of furries I'm afraid. I need to get more involved in the fandom again.

Well, if they are comic book/sci fi geek girls, I am ok with that. lol

I'll keep my eyes peeled. Oh and this lone rolling stone ended up leaving England with a kind of attachment to someone. Life is complicated.