Communication
13 years ago
General
Okay, I love communication, whether it's compliment, critique, or what have you. Getting input is the best way for me to learn, whether it's from work, school, with friends, whichever. Being able to talk to someone about anything, and have em respond is the best fucking feeling to me. Not. Even. Kidding. Post High School, I realize how much I took conversations (though all of those were face to face back then) for granted.
Specifically, if I make a mistake anywhere in life and someone notices it, it's nice to get input about it and learn from it. It doesn't help me much if I get silence since communication is meant to be a two way road, nor a significantly delayed response. Reasons are I can't take anything in from silence, and can't make as well of an adjustment to my life/task/what have you from a delayed response.
The speed in which I get input on something generally influences how much better I learn. Tell me something within a few hours of my mistake, and shit, I'll instantly get right on improving myself I'll have a better clue where I fucked up since the memory's fresh. Tell me within a week, month, or shit, in one case that sticks out at me, I was told of someone's feelings about how I handled something over a year after the event, even though I can recall wanting some kind of input about it right after I had the feeling I done goofed. I can't really have the same impact over a delayed response since the memory of the event isn't fresh in my head anymore.
Pretty much I just wish more folks could use their side of the road more frequently and on top of that, not hesitate to tell me things.
Specifically, if I make a mistake anywhere in life and someone notices it, it's nice to get input about it and learn from it. It doesn't help me much if I get silence since communication is meant to be a two way road, nor a significantly delayed response. Reasons are I can't take anything in from silence, and can't make as well of an adjustment to my life/task/what have you from a delayed response.
The speed in which I get input on something generally influences how much better I learn. Tell me something within a few hours of my mistake, and shit, I'll instantly get right on improving myself I'll have a better clue where I fucked up since the memory's fresh. Tell me within a week, month, or shit, in one case that sticks out at me, I was told of someone's feelings about how I handled something over a year after the event, even though I can recall wanting some kind of input about it right after I had the feeling I done goofed. I can't really have the same impact over a delayed response since the memory of the event isn't fresh in my head anymore.
Pretty much I just wish more folks could use their side of the road more frequently and on top of that, not hesitate to tell me things.
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