*- To The One I Love, Above All -*
13 years ago
To my Dearest Husband,
tealeon
I know that you have had a horrible week. You have been betrayed by people with whom you work with, put in fear of loosing your job and have had many disaggrements with friends that have led to a lot of stress on you. But I know what has bothered you has been what people have been saying to you. About you and about us...
I know that you blame yourself for your feelings about
magnakoji and that no matter how many times I tell you differently, you still think that you are a bad husband because of it. That you are being unfair to me and Koji. That could not be further from the truth.
You, both, put my feelings above your own. My happiness over yours. You both show me so much respect and love that I know our family will work out.
People, who call themselves friends have spoken there mind about our relationship. Called us all sorts of names. Said all kinds of things about all of us. Have said that our relationship won't work out.
What you have to understand is those people, say things based on there experience. Some feel the need to voice there concern, because they don't want us to get hurt.
They may have met other people like us, but they have never met us. They don't know how beautiful the love you have for
magnakoji is, how amazing and strong the love that we have together is. They can say what they want, make there assumptions. No relationship is perfect but it is perfect to us.
Let me say, that your feelings for
magnakoji and his feelings for you, do NOT hurt me. You both inspire me to be true to myself and my feelings.
I know the love you have for me. Nothing and no one anyone can say or do anything to destroy it. You would never leave me for anyone. And I would never leave you. You do not hurt me. You care for me for me when I am sick, hold me when I am scared, reassure me when I am nervous, provide for me, work hard everyday so we can have a life together. Everything you do, shows me how much you love me. Please, never let anyone say anything to make you think otherwise.
You did not trap me into marriage, I married you because I love you. You did not trap
magnakoji he loves you, too. We all love each other, just like any other family. Neither of us would want to be with anyone else.
Yes, we are in a very unusual relationship. But unlike others that may have failed, we won't. We all love, care for and respect eachother's feelings so much, we will always be together.
Don't let anyone use me as an excuse agginest you, for being a bad husband. Your not. You still love me. Just as I love you. Just because you have feelings for another person, doesn't take away from the feelings you have for me. Other people don't understand because they are not in our situation. Don't let them bring you down, Baby. You are a beautiful, big hearted, caring, kind, funny, gay husband. I am so proud of you. For having the courage to be who you are. I want you to love who you are. I don't want you to hide anymore.
People are always going to say there opinion, express there beliefs, tell you there feelings or experiences. You have to be ready for that. And know, in your heart, the truth.
It doesn't matter what people may think or say. You will hear a lot from everyone, we all will, throughout our lives. Just remember that I am here for you. Always have been and always will be. : )
I Love You, My Dearest <3
Ps. I love you, Dearest Little Brother and Angel,
magnakoji And I thank God for everyday I get to have you and
tealeon in my life.
tealeonI know that you have had a horrible week. You have been betrayed by people with whom you work with, put in fear of loosing your job and have had many disaggrements with friends that have led to a lot of stress on you. But I know what has bothered you has been what people have been saying to you. About you and about us...
I know that you blame yourself for your feelings about
magnakoji and that no matter how many times I tell you differently, you still think that you are a bad husband because of it. That you are being unfair to me and Koji. That could not be further from the truth. You, both, put my feelings above your own. My happiness over yours. You both show me so much respect and love that I know our family will work out.
People, who call themselves friends have spoken there mind about our relationship. Called us all sorts of names. Said all kinds of things about all of us. Have said that our relationship won't work out.
What you have to understand is those people, say things based on there experience. Some feel the need to voice there concern, because they don't want us to get hurt.
They may have met other people like us, but they have never met us. They don't know how beautiful the love you have for
magnakoji is, how amazing and strong the love that we have together is. They can say what they want, make there assumptions. No relationship is perfect but it is perfect to us. Let me say, that your feelings for
magnakoji and his feelings for you, do NOT hurt me. You both inspire me to be true to myself and my feelings. I know the love you have for me. Nothing and no one anyone can say or do anything to destroy it. You would never leave me for anyone. And I would never leave you. You do not hurt me. You care for me for me when I am sick, hold me when I am scared, reassure me when I am nervous, provide for me, work hard everyday so we can have a life together. Everything you do, shows me how much you love me. Please, never let anyone say anything to make you think otherwise.
You did not trap me into marriage, I married you because I love you. You did not trap
magnakoji he loves you, too. We all love each other, just like any other family. Neither of us would want to be with anyone else.Yes, we are in a very unusual relationship. But unlike others that may have failed, we won't. We all love, care for and respect eachother's feelings so much, we will always be together.
Don't let anyone use me as an excuse agginest you, for being a bad husband. Your not. You still love me. Just as I love you. Just because you have feelings for another person, doesn't take away from the feelings you have for me. Other people don't understand because they are not in our situation. Don't let them bring you down, Baby. You are a beautiful, big hearted, caring, kind, funny, gay husband. I am so proud of you. For having the courage to be who you are. I want you to love who you are. I don't want you to hide anymore.
People are always going to say there opinion, express there beliefs, tell you there feelings or experiences. You have to be ready for that. And know, in your heart, the truth.
It doesn't matter what people may think or say. You will hear a lot from everyone, we all will, throughout our lives. Just remember that I am here for you. Always have been and always will be. : )
I Love You, My Dearest <3
Ps. I love you, Dearest Little Brother and Angel,
magnakoji And I thank God for everyday I get to have you and
tealeon in my life.
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I defend what you have! What you have is beautiful, and desirable! Let nothing...no-one...give any of you reason to doubt...love is NEVER wrong!
I am proud to know you...proud to call you friends...and proud you all have something so wonderful!
The Maelstroms and what they have...their love...is good, honest...and right! What they are together...is a familyl
To the three of you...Keep yourselves strong. Keep caring. Keep loving. It is pure love...Savor it.
You will always have my caring and loving support!
May you three be forever blessed!
There will always be an UnnamedDragon who'll be forever grateful for being allowed to know the three of you in his lifetime! *winghugs*
I simply wish you all the luck in the world. With the support of each other you three will go through all problems you will fave. I believe in the strenghth of all of you.