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eh? Does it really matter what I think?
17 years ago
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I really been trying hard to avoid drama at all costs but something recently got me a bit down. I can't name names because that would be fucked up and I'm not about to shit talk anyone.
We made plans though or so I thought. I come to find out earlier today that we agreed on is no more. What really bugged me though is the fact no one came to me before hand to even ask me if I was okay with this. I really get annoyed when people just assume everything is okay and I'll just naturally go with the flow.
What really drives the nail in though is the fact I care about this person a lot. I just thought they be a little more understanding and you know ...give me some kind of say in the situation. The way it was presented felt like "well this is how things are now, sorry, nothing I can do" I'm probably reading into it too much but I needed to get this out of my head for now.
- statik
We made plans though or so I thought. I come to find out earlier today that we agreed on is no more. What really bugged me though is the fact no one came to me before hand to even ask me if I was okay with this. I really get annoyed when people just assume everything is okay and I'll just naturally go with the flow.
What really drives the nail in though is the fact I care about this person a lot. I just thought they be a little more understanding and you know ...give me some kind of say in the situation. The way it was presented felt like "well this is how things are now, sorry, nothing I can do" I'm probably reading into it too much but I needed to get this out of my head for now.
- statik
ProGen
~progen
I know the feeling.. I personally stopped trying to do anything with local furs and even stopped trying to attend local furmeets myself because I never seemed to matter. Too many times had plans forgotten or changed without even being told... even been blown off on plans previously set because that day they made plans to play a video game. Good luck, Statik.
genom
~genom
For what it's worth I doubt he/she meant anything by it. Probably just a misunderstanding between good friends, ya know? It happens. You're totally justified in being hurt and annoyed by the whole thing, though, don't get me wrong -- but talk about it if ya haven't, let em know how you feel! Odds are it'll at least be a while before it happens again.
