Well, you're not the only one, I think I offended someone too, but I think my statement to them was fair.

If it's who I think it was you are refering too, I'm sure you were fair.

I tend to think it was probably someone else, as it was someone I hadn't met before, but it is all good now. *hugs you*

I'm going to call you a name!
You are... uh.. You have EYES! HAH! You're umm.. WEIRD because of uh... EYES... and uh SKIN! Yeah! That's it! You're covered in SKIN!

Damn, I couldn't think of anything good.. can't blame me for trying though.

You did awesome hon!

Oh yeah, I'm really really good at randomly offending people, supposedly.

Well, it's good to be good at something, right?

All part of being an adult am i right? We dont have the luxuries others have nor do we take as much for granted...its the way of the world *shrugs*

Exactly! I just wish some certain people would understand this simple fact.

I tend to ignore peoples' ignorance...ive given up being an asshole, nothing ever comes from it. Feel like im just using up air i could use for something more important...like living longer lol

Oh trust me, I try hard not to be an asshole too. But when I see crap like this, I gotta call it how I see it. Of course, they got all butthurt and whiney over it too, and started the shitstorm tactics. Sheesh.

Then just block them and move on. Some people you cant win with and it will turn into an ongoing shit-hurricane lol

Good advice. I shall do this.

Huh... did someone really get that worked up acount convention attendance?

Yes, and after they got home, started begging for money to fix their car for work. AFTER going to AC.

Huh... well there you go...

Yup.

The number of cons I've missed is legion. But I have a house, working cars, working computers, food... And I don't have to count on the kindness of strangers to get by.

I keep offending people all the time by accident...

Me too, but in this case, they seem to think I did it on person. Nope, just calling a spade a spade. More or less.

What exactly was it yous aid to this person? XD if it was an image and you gave constructive crititsism and they took it to far? or what? I'm curious

No, nothing like that. I merely stated that they should have fixed their car which they use for work instead of going to AC last weekend and now begging for money for the car. To me, that common sence.

After reading what you've said here, yeah, that kinda should be common sense. I haven't been to a con in ages, and atm I'm busy planning for a baby and starting a business, etc, and don't have time/energy/money to spare for stuff like that.

Although hey, if you know anybody who'd like to buy hand made, *real* soap, lemme know? I can do custom stuff too :D

Allow me to advise on work/fandom/baby. When the child comes, the time available for fandom drops nearly to nothing. And the work time will be interfered with some as well, requiring creative scheduling sometimes.

I'm already the mother of a 9 year old, so I know the details of that. Work is work, I'm running a home-based business that will, even once it's grown drastically, only occupy about 8-12 hours a week. And as for the fandom, I haven't really been involved much for several years now other then as an artist and art fan, so that's not really much of a concern either.

yeah that definatly make since O_o;

Hmmm names.... Well what name do you want to be called? I mean we talk every day on the phone multiple times... Damn four wheelers. they messing up my train of thought.....

Hon, I think you have a long way to go before you top the a-hole charts.

Remember: there is a difference between being honest and being an a-hole.

You were likely being honest. This person thought differently. ^.^

while criticism can be hurtful at times it can also be helpful in improving ones skills or talent yes sometimes what you hear or in some cases read isnt what you want to hear there is no need to revert to a 3rd grade level and resort to name calling it dosent solve anything and can lead to only more resentment I for one welcome open and honest commentary on the pics i take I like knowing where I stack up and what I might try to improve this hobby of mine

you are far from being an asshole i really appreciated how supportive you were when my ex was being the biggest asshole i have ever met but i have totally separated myself from him dont even talk to him since january we both agree that we cant be friends and share an equal hate which he is too immature to know what a friendship is but i am glad that you and spectra are there as friends i am glad to have met such a great couple that are also wise and intelligent in many ways she is very lucky to have you and i wish there were more honest guys like you calientra because then maybe there wouldnt be so much hurt in the world and maybe there would be girls who could see there is such things as love and suipport. I know the two of you inspire me and keep me strong even though i have no job right now i havent given up yet i know things will go in a better direction for me but no you are not an asshole i hope you two will keep in touch i am not sure if i will be able to go to mff in november i know its time to sign up again but i am not sure if i dont get back on my feet soon i really want to see you guys so i will have to think about it but keep your head up calientra because no matter what whenever you get off the road you have an incredible person to come home too and no one else has someone as special as her and she loves you for who you are and thats all that matters and you know what i have learned that not everyone will like you i know this and i dont care because i am who i am and i shouldnt have to change just to prove something i love the both of you and think of you both everyday and wonder how yall are doing keep in touch you two.

I havent formally have met you yet, but i would like to say that we need more like minded individuals like yourself in the fandom. There are some furs who aren't as grateful for the little things or that seem to want to go to as many cons as possible, but their well being, be it: living situation, vehicle, etc.. is not up to standards. Im much of a realist as well, im grateful for having mff as my only con, but its a con i can be comfortable at, see many people, and i feel it has that appeal to it as magical, compared if you attend a large amount of cons every year. With working part time, taking a few college classes and paying for my son through child support while living with my parents, i have been very strict on myself with budget and the value of a dollar holds very clear to myself. One can only do what their capable of, cant do anything more then your best, and your doing just that! Theres people out there that may see things differently but those who have a feel for what its like to be less fortunate or ones who have the common sense, understands us.

HUGS! You are awesome!

Oh, and I'll be at MFF this year, so I hope I finally get to meet you there in person too.

*hugs back happily* Im just myself, im no different than on here than in person, just male irl but still chloe. I would really enjoy meeting you as well. Last year was my first con and it was so welcoming and once you got over the large crowd, it was like being right at home.