I'm single,live with my 10 year old step son, and Im think ing of proposing to a girl that I'v dated 4 a long time. I work at a DTP (diciplintation program.) And I had a bad child hood. I'm also handi cap (I only have one arm). I Used to box with a specile arm. But recently quit because I adopted my 10 year old son. Family comes first.