Joe is being a fucking asshat extreme. Tammy went into the hospital for a severe life threatening kidney infection. Instead of going to the hospital with her....he sits on his ass and watches tv. He'd rather go to his freind's house than help us care for her/care for his damned kids. He claims he doesn't understand why she is upset...he didn't know he should have gone with her, should have come to help us instead of sleeping in his trashed trailer. He can't think for his fucking self...he can't clean the damned trailer.

So...my grandpa will either die from the radiation...or...or the very doctor that told him he'd die if he goes under another surgery...has scheduled him for a surgery so after the weekend I am going to his house with my aunt and I hope....I don't know. I want to go to the hospital and be there and hope to hell he comes out of it.

But argh...I can not do anything now. Tammy needs me, grandpy needs me. Joe is a fucking sack of shit. He may have defended our country...but when it comes to being a husband and a father and a human being he is fucking shit. If he is too stupid to discover his wife needs him when she is that sick...I don't know what can happen. He needs a brain transplant. Durrrr...wife could die and is scared...husband should a. sit on ass and let mother inlaw take wife to hospital the next day. or b. get off stupid ass, take kids to inlaw and take wife to hospital, hold her hand and tell her everything is going to be alright.

So, guys...what one does husband do? No...deathly sick woman has not right to be hurt and angry at being abandoned. Graaah! Joe needs a scheduled beatdown/brain change or some fuckinng thing.