Relationships.
13 years ago
Yeah I'm whining about the same nonsense a lot of furs go through... Every person I've talked to so far has either turned me down or already taken because I was to slow.. Or they are just not interested because they have been used up...
Now I know there are people out there that are single, maybe much longer then me, but most of these people have already had the proper experience, I still haven't had one. Most I had was 2 distant relationship and they both asked me and both left me in the end, they are still friends..
Anyway, I've been trying my luck with at least 6 different people, all the same situations, tonight was my last attempt and found out I was a month slow, and this person I had a lot in common with.. I can't understand how I keep failing.. All I want is someone artistic, okay grammar and similar chemistry even a bloody bird for once!, all I really want is to know there is someone on this planet that can love me. :(
First person I tried for, I literally changed a lot about myself just to impress her, I put in so much commitment, then I got desperate.. And that's key to fucking things up.
Recently I tried a furry dating site, every nearby girl (Sydney) have been inactive for a few months, every distant girl they just don't reply to me at all yet they talk to some stupid fox with bad grammar, so I checked the male box, I get 5 different guys from Australia just like said stupid fox with bad grammar. So this website is crossed out, usless, don't even bother with furrmate.com, it's garbage.
Anyway, sorry for sounding like a stupid fur who's letting his emotions get to him.. I just need to vent, please feel free to talk to me..
I'll probably delete this latter if no comments..
Now I know there are people out there that are single, maybe much longer then me, but most of these people have already had the proper experience, I still haven't had one. Most I had was 2 distant relationship and they both asked me and both left me in the end, they are still friends..
Anyway, I've been trying my luck with at least 6 different people, all the same situations, tonight was my last attempt and found out I was a month slow, and this person I had a lot in common with.. I can't understand how I keep failing.. All I want is someone artistic, okay grammar and similar chemistry even a bloody bird for once!, all I really want is to know there is someone on this planet that can love me. :(
First person I tried for, I literally changed a lot about myself just to impress her, I put in so much commitment, then I got desperate.. And that's key to fucking things up.
Recently I tried a furry dating site, every nearby girl (Sydney) have been inactive for a few months, every distant girl they just don't reply to me at all yet they talk to some stupid fox with bad grammar, so I checked the male box, I get 5 different guys from Australia just like said stupid fox with bad grammar. So this website is crossed out, usless, don't even bother with furrmate.com, it's garbage.
Anyway, sorry for sounding like a stupid fur who's letting his emotions get to him.. I just need to vent, please feel free to talk to me..
I'll probably delete this latter if no comments..
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Other than that, keep looking and trying, there's someone out there for everyone *hugs*
Youre a great guy after all, im just abit shy when it comes to talking wif ya XD Dont let it get ya down <3
Anyway.. I'm sure there's got to be someone who matches your needs. Someone who's artistic, fluent, and most importantly, a bird.
Good luck. And be patient.
But you know that i'll always listen. If i'm not online send me a tweet or something, you know. :3
I could say what the others said, be patient, just wait for it. I waited too.
And when you get this feeling "Now i should do something" just do it! That's how i did it, and it worked. Overanalyzing wont get you far, trust me. :P
(I'm tired and may sound compeletely weird but heprtkgyldth. )
if you need to talk about anything lemme know hun. :>
Unfortunately, this is the age where relationships can be very hit and miss. Everybody's trying to figure out what they want. There's lots of people who can't handle the distance, and they're just figuring "Why bother?"
May I ask things like how you present yourself to people, whether it be individual messages or profile? That would help me more on giving some advice.
but.. I thought I'd give you my two cents
I'm a single female fur, an artist, and a fursuiter, which is probably the hardest position to be in.
There are great guys out there, but at the same time, I've yet to find someone where it works out (guys are just...not mature enough or something..)
I find that a good way to meet people is at meets and cons.
I cant do long distance ever again and have sort of been peeking around at cons for any interesting single boys or even planning to meet someone at a con to spend some time to get to know them.
I find that meeting people in person is 10times better then starting something online x__x
I wish the best of luck to you.
Just be patient.
You are young and us girls do exist, we just scare easily and are looking for someone mature and chivalrous ;p
anyway, thanks for commenting.:>