There's gotta be someone decent out there. But they might not necessarily be for you. Life is random, it'll happen but you never know when. In the mean time, live your life for you and make friends.

Because being a user, cheater, or a liar is MUCH easier than being nice, decent, and good?

IDK its kinda like the reason you can find someone you actually connect with and they are like 1000 miles away

*hugs tight* Don't let them get you down. There is someone out there for you. Sometimes you just have to weed out the stupid people to find the one. It can take a while, but it will happen. Besides, anyone who would use or lie or cheat on you is a complete and utter fool. You're better off without them.

I hear ya on that man. its why im not worried about it now, going into the army, I ship jan 2nd and in off to see the world and save lives. when all thats done I will find someone to settle with. hell I might find that person during. All my past relationships have just been shitty. So hear me out when I say I wish u the best hun.

Oh no... I'm really sorry. :( I thought a good man was hard enough to find in the homosexual world let along the furry world. Just don't quit but make sure you give yourself enough time to heal. Hit me up if you want to talk about it or just to chat or something. :)

alone* I obviously can't spell. ><"

It comes with the territory, I suppose.
I dunno, I've met lots of very sweet furs, to be honest.
I have faith that you'll meet furs that you can proudly call your friends, hon!

This isn't exclusive to furries, all humans are like this.

sadly this is fairly common, so few people care anymore and it pains my heart to see how bad this is..

You cannot find anyone who doesn't lie, cheat, or take advantage because there is no one.

Humanity is plagued by a disease, and that disease causes a secondary disease. The disease is described, ironically, on Lovefraud.com.

The manifestation of the disease is prevalence of Ego in the individual. A psychopath, those afflicted (the primary disease) lack empathy, lack moral reasoning, and gravitate towards positions of power as a result of the ego taking control of the mind. It is more sinister in those afflicted, sociopaths; for they have empathy and simply choose to ignore it and whatever moral reasoning they did developed. As a result, they too are consumed by ego.

Ego is what you see, ego is what lies, what cheats, and what seeks to take advantage.

But, the good news is, ego is very easy to recognize and thus avoid. And if you are intelligent and skilled enough, you can also control ego just as ego is controlled through mass media (hint; emotions are how you control ego, as ego and primitive emotions are linked.) Ego has certain traits that are easily recognized. Ego is the source of all addiction, it likes to be right, not correct, it likes to "win", it wants to be popular, and ego is very proud, to a fault. These can be used to identify ego. I look for things like smoking cigarettes and drinking coffee - addictive behaviors indicative of an ego controlling the mind, as both are unhealthy habits that do the body and mind no good.

Ego can be tamed, but it takes skill and most of all, understanding of what the ego is and how it controls the individual. Unfortunately I cannot refer you to any documentation of the ego, other than to suggest you watch "Revolver" about 50 times until you get it. It would also help to read lovefraud.com, and the wikipedia article on Kohlberg's Moral Development.


One thing I have come to believe, and which I find no evidence whatsoever to refute, is that ego is not capable of love, so someone who is controlled by their ego is incapable of being in live, just as one controlled by his ego is unsuitable for being in a society - which explains why modern industrialized society seems to be going so wrong - because we are not actually a society, but a collection of egos.