I have been noticing lately that alot of people are really trying to fall in love. That would be great except that the people I am referring to want to fall in love with ME!!!!

I am SOOOO not in the right frame of mind for that with all of the stuff I am dealing with right now, and it is really frustrating to have to tell the SAME people OVER AND OVER AND OVER again, that I am not in the market for a boyfriend.

How many times can one man hear the words "I am not interested...period", before he actually gets the message?

This is very frustrating for me because, aside from the fact that I can not EMOTIONALLY deal with a boyfriend right now, I am not in any kind of good financial situation. I love my friends, but only as that... friends.

How do you tell someone "back the hell off" without losing their friendship, but actually getting the point across with finality?


" A friend is someone who loves you, and is perfectly okay with the fact that you don't have to be IN love to love them too."
~ Me