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Here's my rant for the day :P
Hey people, Bootz here.
Ya know, I don't get people sometimes. And no this isn't directed towards anybody before I go any further, this is more of a general statement towards people who know who they are and know exactly how they treat other but don't wanna come to terms with it. Anyway I've happened to notice that I'm with a certain group of friends and usually when I think that we're all a group of friends there's just that one person that usually gets excluded or treated a different way all together all because. No real rhyme or reason to any of it, just cause or rather there isn't much of a reason that you'd think is very good. Maybe it's because I'm just sitting on the outside when this happens but isn't it just odd that out of a group of friends there's just ONE person that just gets treated differently rather than the same way as everyone else in the group? Now mind you there's a few acceptions to this, like if you know the person in question longer or something. But if the person is getting excluded just cause, oh lets say for example "because they have a certain attitude towards things" or "they just rub me the wrong way" that's usually just kinda trivial to me, specially because you can just try and talk to the person about it and be straight up with them. I mean usually it should be as simple as that but for some reason it's not, again maybe it's just me but doesn't anybody get tired of seeing others get excluded or ignored or just plain treated differently for the dumbest reasons?
Again this is probably just me thinking on the outside so I'm probably just talking bullshit, but honestly it pisses me off cause when I'm in a group of friends that what I think we all are, friends. Why the fuck should anybody be treated differently or excluded all for something as stupid as someone rubbing someone else a wrong way or cause of them having an off day and not acting the way they would in a certain stream or whatever, it's fucking trivial as hell and it really doesn't help that every now and again I keep sitting on the outside of this and can't say anything without looking like I'm the one with the problem. And it isn't just me, other people feel the same way too but get the same treatment if they speak out about it if not worse. Honestly I've been seeing it quite a bit here and there and it's pissing me off, but rather than give the names of the people who do it giving them a chance to quickly deny ever doing so allow me to give a general statement as a whole. Cut the shit. It gets old seeing this kind of shit and frankly I'd rather NOT see it among a group of friends, specially people who actually decide to speak up about the same thing but in a different manner in which would be thought to be more effective than a blunt statement. It also pisses me off how some people can put on a fake smile to the people they have a problem with yet when they're gone they can say all kinds of nasty things about them or if not them put the blame or give an attitude towards someone else who has nothing to do with it at all. Speaking as someone who's done it and isn't proud of it it gets pretty old after a while, and as I speak watching this crap from the outside it's getting fucking old. Seriously, either be straight up and cut the crap or don't bother having friends at all if all you do is bitch and moan about not getting a particular person's attention but then snap or just turn plain ugly if you get the attention of someone who actually GIVES a shit.
*sighs*... well that's my thoughts on the matter, people who think I'm targeting them feel free to bitch in the comments and people who know who they are but wish not to comment and are rather upset at the sheer implication that I would think that they were that type of person... maybe you really should check yourself once in a while before streaming or bitching about someone who could be a potential friend to one of your friends who has a drastically different opinion of said person in question. Just saying, doesn't hurt ^w^
That's my thoughts on it, don't like it go cry in a corner or something, later ^w^
Ya know, I don't get people sometimes. And no this isn't directed towards anybody before I go any further, this is more of a general statement towards people who know who they are and know exactly how they treat other but don't wanna come to terms with it. Anyway I've happened to notice that I'm with a certain group of friends and usually when I think that we're all a group of friends there's just that one person that usually gets excluded or treated a different way all together all because. No real rhyme or reason to any of it, just cause or rather there isn't much of a reason that you'd think is very good. Maybe it's because I'm just sitting on the outside when this happens but isn't it just odd that out of a group of friends there's just ONE person that just gets treated differently rather than the same way as everyone else in the group? Now mind you there's a few acceptions to this, like if you know the person in question longer or something. But if the person is getting excluded just cause, oh lets say for example "because they have a certain attitude towards things" or "they just rub me the wrong way" that's usually just kinda trivial to me, specially because you can just try and talk to the person about it and be straight up with them. I mean usually it should be as simple as that but for some reason it's not, again maybe it's just me but doesn't anybody get tired of seeing others get excluded or ignored or just plain treated differently for the dumbest reasons?
Again this is probably just me thinking on the outside so I'm probably just talking bullshit, but honestly it pisses me off cause when I'm in a group of friends that what I think we all are, friends. Why the fuck should anybody be treated differently or excluded all for something as stupid as someone rubbing someone else a wrong way or cause of them having an off day and not acting the way they would in a certain stream or whatever, it's fucking trivial as hell and it really doesn't help that every now and again I keep sitting on the outside of this and can't say anything without looking like I'm the one with the problem. And it isn't just me, other people feel the same way too but get the same treatment if they speak out about it if not worse. Honestly I've been seeing it quite a bit here and there and it's pissing me off, but rather than give the names of the people who do it giving them a chance to quickly deny ever doing so allow me to give a general statement as a whole. Cut the shit. It gets old seeing this kind of shit and frankly I'd rather NOT see it among a group of friends, specially people who actually decide to speak up about the same thing but in a different manner in which would be thought to be more effective than a blunt statement. It also pisses me off how some people can put on a fake smile to the people they have a problem with yet when they're gone they can say all kinds of nasty things about them or if not them put the blame or give an attitude towards someone else who has nothing to do with it at all. Speaking as someone who's done it and isn't proud of it it gets pretty old after a while, and as I speak watching this crap from the outside it's getting fucking old. Seriously, either be straight up and cut the crap or don't bother having friends at all if all you do is bitch and moan about not getting a particular person's attention but then snap or just turn plain ugly if you get the attention of someone who actually GIVES a shit.
*sighs*... well that's my thoughts on the matter, people who think I'm targeting them feel free to bitch in the comments and people who know who they are but wish not to comment and are rather upset at the sheer implication that I would think that they were that type of person... maybe you really should check yourself once in a while before streaming or bitching about someone who could be a potential friend to one of your friends who has a drastically different opinion of said person in question. Just saying, doesn't hurt ^w^
That's my thoughts on it, don't like it go cry in a corner or something, later ^w^
