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13 years ago
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Ex's....when you think the break-up wasn't to terribly bad after they start talking to you again.
Only for them to post about constant reminders of you.
Well I'm sorry I lived with ya for a month or two...wanted you to move in with me but threw so many excuses
to refuse me every time...
And then after i comment saying sorry that my mail still pops up once in a while as a reminder then get your friend to comment: "Was that saying about constant reminders? Well speaking of reminders, look who commented. xD" and then you like it...
Should I just stop tryin to be friends though you started to talk to me first?
I should just stop commenting or even bother to try to be friends if this happens.
I don't care if he didn't mean to be rude but I know that other person probably was. I don't think he liked me anyways....
But this is why I avoid fb and tend to lean more towards the fur fandom than the anime/cosplay fandom. Though I haven't dated a furry yet, and I'm sure there is drama no matter what fandom I'm in, so far things have been awesome. In such a short time I have met many awesome furs. Made tons of friends. Many have already became very close and dear to me.
I wanted to rant again but this saber wolf did not want to cause drama on fb and no one (other than a certain dog and wolf) have me on fb. Three furs I know have met my ex when I lived in Georgia. One I told more about the problems at that time. -Sigh- I just need to find something fun to do this weekend to get my mind off of stuff.
Only for them to post about constant reminders of you.
Well I'm sorry I lived with ya for a month or two...wanted you to move in with me but threw so many excuses
to refuse me every time...
And then after i comment saying sorry that my mail still pops up once in a while as a reminder then get your friend to comment: "Was that saying about constant reminders? Well speaking of reminders, look who commented. xD" and then you like it...
Should I just stop tryin to be friends though you started to talk to me first?
I should just stop commenting or even bother to try to be friends if this happens.
I don't care if he didn't mean to be rude but I know that other person probably was. I don't think he liked me anyways....
But this is why I avoid fb and tend to lean more towards the fur fandom than the anime/cosplay fandom. Though I haven't dated a furry yet, and I'm sure there is drama no matter what fandom I'm in, so far things have been awesome. In such a short time I have met many awesome furs. Made tons of friends. Many have already became very close and dear to me.
I wanted to rant again but this saber wolf did not want to cause drama on fb and no one (other than a certain dog and wolf) have me on fb. Three furs I know have met my ex when I lived in Georgia. One I told more about the problems at that time. -Sigh- I just need to find something fun to do this weekend to get my mind off of stuff.
Being friends with an ex is not always a good idea.. because it's like saying.. "Hey!! Sorry you couldn't have all of me, here's your consolation prize" Neither of you want to watch the other move on, "Here's a consolation prize and here... let me rub my new girlfriend/boyfriend in your face." It just almost isn't possible unless some REAL mutual agreement is met and you both knew you wouldn't click anyways and you're HONESLTY okay with it. Moving on.. is simply that... moving on, leaving them alone and to their own life. After all.. either YOU or HIM made that decision.. if YOU made the decision to leave, then obviously you need not bother him anymore and let him move on rather than giving him senses of 'hope', that's just not right. If HE made the decision to leave, then he needs to respect you and let you move on, if he's gonna leave you and then still try and get in your pants, or 'talk' to you, don't fall for it... unless you are comfortable with being a side-dish.
People think there are many roads to take, when there's not. When people break up, that's what they do.. not break up and pretend to be friends when there's obviously still feelings existing. Then you are mixing the recipe to screw again.. creating drama.. if you speak back to him.. and feed the fire.. then you are effectively creating it for yourself too. Ignore him completely, he or you made that decision, respect it.
Dunno if that works for you, but worth the try though.